What should I do with my tuberous breast?

Hey everyone. I'm a 23 years old girl who's just discovered her breasts are rather tuberous, not small just a few hours ago after doing a vast research! Literally, it broke my heart when I got to know that my breasts are deformed and there's no way of getting rid of that without surgery. Since my teenage till this morning, I'd been thinking I have small breasts. That's why tried massaging and doing some exercises regularly in this lockdown. From my early teenage even till now I've been going through extreme insecurity about my breasts. I was always optimistic thinking that it can be fixed by myself following specific exercises, having healthy diet and regular massaging. After doing all of those, my cup size just increased in this lockdown. But no change appeared in regard of the shape. I got extremely bullied by my ex for having this kinda downward shape of my boobs. He just threw me in the hell of insecurity. The person I currently love, he appreciates my boobs a lot and tried to boost up my confidence. He says he's completely okay with my breasts and finds them attractive as well because he loves me. But you know what? None of those could help me to pull me up from deep downtown of insecurity. I know he's also a boobs freak. Gosh! Who's not? He also loves to see well shaped bigger boobs in instagram, porns or even when it gets noticed in random women. He loves me a lot. That's why appreciates my boobs. But indirectly he's also obsessed with those nicer boobs like other guys, na? It's really pretty hard to believe I'm going through deformity for ages and can't choose the option of going under knives. I cried like insane throughout the day while I got to know about this. What should I do now? It's killing me inside.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've never heard of tuberous breasts before, so I looked them up, and I don't think that you have anything to worry about.

    From the examples of those types of breasts I've seen online, they don't look abnormal, they just look like slightly differently shaped boobs, but they're still boobs. They're your boobs.

    You don't seem to have any problems with other people liking your boobs, especially if your current boyfriend loves them, then thats all that should matter. That you are happy with him, he is happy with you, and he is happy with your boobs.

    I think that you may be more upset by the thought of your boobs being deformed, but are they really? They're your boobs, and everyone's boobs are unique and different in their own way.

    I think that you are letting society tell you what to think, rather than listening to what your heart and body are telling you, which is that your boobs are perfect the way they are.

  • I've never seen that before. How are you dealing with it? 😗

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know how breast are a symbol of womanhood in much the same way that penis is a symbol of manhood. I think that you need to feel ok with what and who you are. Don’t define yourself on the what society deems as normal or beautiful. However, given the importance of how it feels to want to feel normal I suggest you get the surgery. But do it for you and because it’s what you want. Otherwise it won’t make you feel better.

  • Sorry to hear this... UNLESS you're going to save up for the surgery... You will need to practice body acceptance and positivity

    • YAY 🙋 Thanks for most helpful girl 🦋

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  • I bet you are beautiful and sexy!
    Small is quite ok !:)

  • Just do the best you can.

  • Seek out therapy

  • you need to stay off the internet

  • why you get into Gods work

  • To me it doesn't matter what they look like they are pretty and very suckable