What should I do?

I have never had sex before and my friend says she is gonna "get me dick" tomorrow, now the other night she pretty much made my other friend and a dude she liked have sex (it was her first time by the way)

I am reaLly nervous and kinda don't want to do it, I'm 99% sure she WILL bring it up around this guy I like and will try to get us together when I just want things to happen naturally
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You're giving this person too much power over you. She doesn't have a say in who you sleep with, especially when it's your first time. You'll regret being taught how to be a slut by this bitch, I can tell you that much. If you go down that road, there is no turning back. Later on, when you tell someone about your first time, they're going to think you're as easy as they come, when you couldn't even say "no" to a girl friend of yours while you were still a virgin. Sorry if this sounds cruel, but I wanted to expose facts so that you saw the full picture. Think twice before letting someone else control you and turn you into their own puppet. If you think this girl will like you more because you say "yes", think twice: She'll leave you whenever she wants. It won't matter how many "favors" you have done for her. I know the type

  • So stand your ground and tell her no. It's your experience and you get to decide how it happens.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well if you don't want to have sex then you don't have to no matter what your friend has to say about it. If it comes down to it tell the guy that you like if he gets involved and explain the situation to him. If he's a decent guy then he won't pressure you. Besides, he would need your consent either way. If you want to try some things then communicate that with him and give him boundaries. Otherwise just say you rather get to know him better and get comfortable and if things happen then they happen.

  • DON’T LET ANYONE PUSH YOU INTO SEX! If your friend makes you feel bad for not doing it or forces you to have sex they’re not a very good friend and the guy is committing rape! Sex is a wonderful thing but if you’re not ready it will be extremely painful.

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  • That is the definition of a bad friend, my dear. She is trying to force you into something you are not comfortable or ready for and that is not okay, at all. Dont allow her to peer pressure you!

  • Be thankful that you've got such a good friend

  • Why not just hang out and see how you feel at that moment?
    You can agree and go for it, or just say no !
    Do you feel like you are ready to have sex?

  • You do have the option to say no but I would suggest a new friend

  • Lol, why do you think your friend has a say? Just laugh and say "you are crazy, that is NOT happening, k Byeeeee"

  • Tell her you don't want her to do that

  • Just let things happen naturally the dude she brought you may be there for only just sex so and would never really give shit about you afterwards.
    So think before you act on it.

  • Same thing happened to me. One of my coworkers tried to set me up to "get my d*ck wet" I wished he backed off

  • Ask your friend that its not something you want right now and you will have sex when you are ready

  • So if you don't wanna do it, don't do it

  • Then tell her that you don't want any help

  • you need to tell her

  • I have never had sex too.