What I want for my own relationship is for my partner and I to be each other's firsts and lasts, and in order to ensure this, I want to wait until at least a few years of being in a relationship and until we are 100% certain that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. Though I don't particularly care if it happens before or after marriage.
As for other people, it's my belief that it would be in their best interest to do the same, and that would be my recommendation if anyone were to ask me for advice, but ultimately it is their decision and theirs alone. If someone knows for certain that living an alternative lifestyle is best for them, then they should be free to do so.
no, because in my opinion, sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. it's not "the" most important thing but one of the vital things and i can't afford paying for the marriage ordeal, which is quite costly without even being sure that this shit works out between us...
I think it’s their decision. However, I am an advocate for sex before marriage as sex can actually be a deal breaker in a mariage and is very important. I’ve heard of cases where men have insisted on waiting until mariage only for the wife to find out it’s because he has a micropenis or they’re not sexually compatible. Try before you buy. If you’re thinking of marrying them anyway, why not just to have sex to make sure it everything is okay?
But then again my views are of course swayed by the British culture I’m surrounded by
Haha yea i remember your British culture😉 but yea you're right. In fact, wired i never thought about that reason before... but you're right I've heard stories about people who waited and then figured out he can't really preform well and such. Tnx I've forgot about that reason🤔
I think that decision should be a person by person basis. If someone wants to wait for marriage then that’s fine. If someone wants to wait for the right person, not necessarily for marriage, then they’re perfectly within their rights to do so. And if someone just doesn’t care and wants to have sex then that’s fine. As long as everyone is being safe about sex then that’s what matters.
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Yeah, because marriage is overrated. Just a religious and financial deed often based on terms for societal acceptance of living together. Marriage and sex have nothing do to with each other.
To do* Also, it's worth to try things out you're gonna stick with forever (if you want to marry anyway).
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