In front of you or alone if u see your man or any other man masturbating until cumming, how do you like it?
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Well no other replies yet but you invited me, and based on your second photo choice, I will reply. I'll try and speak for women in general, but not sure if I will do this justice.
Many guys will have a physiological reaction to seeing a woman (or man if they are gay) "masturbating until cumming." Not all, but many would enjoy this. And they can get into it pretty quickly, no matter the context or what else may or may not be going on around them. (This is obvious, right.) For the most part, women/girls are not like this. It's not so much the act itself, as the randomness of it. Or the foreignness of the person. Not all women need a lot of foreplay but most do need to 'get their head in the game', and this does not happen easily suddenly, the way it can for men.
But for most women who are sexually active and have at least some sort of relationship with the guy (strangers, not so much), they enjoy it, and as long as they are somewhat prepared for it, 'in the mood', and like the guy, are attracted to him, curious about him or know him well... then it's all good.
It also seems that men are more turned on when they see just the body parts, isolated. Some will pass on this, and some will be fairly particular about what, exactly, is shown, but for the most part guys are aroused when sexuality is compartmentalized like this. (Though most prefer some context/the bigger picture.) Women: not much. Odds are against it. But do women want to sometimes see their guy masturbating, having a good time? Of course. Strangers? The answer is probably rarely. And it can be in a car wreck 'I couldn't look away but I was kind of cringing' sort of way. The takeaway for guys should be: 1. Never unannounced, requested, contextual. And 2. Zoom out. They want to see clothing, the rest of the body, the room and surrounding furnishings and environment. Forget the zoom/telephoto.
Incidentally, in studies when women are shown graphic sexual imagery, monitoring equipment shows their bodies are reacting physiologically, but their own personal ratings and accounts show no or low reactions. Why? They don't know for certain - could be a number of explanations, which I won't get into because they are all theories, but the strongest theory they refer to is that women have for thousands of years probably been put in situations where they had sex forced upon them, whether they liked it or not (romance was not a part of the Neanderthal lifestyle), so women's bodies have evolved to not technically have to be turned on, in the way that guys who are the initiators do. Their bodies benefit from reacting somewhat, but their minds are not into it. They are detached from the experience. At least, they try to be.
So now you see how your question, the way it was phrase, "a/your man" has more than one answer. Guys want the answer to be a simple "yes", but the wise ones know that it's not that simple. Strangers are a whole different animal than "your man." I wouldn't go so far as to say she has to love him, but there usually has to be some sort of connection to the person.
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