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Once a guy penetrates are you morally contracted to let him finish?

I believe that barring serious pain or an emergency that once a guy's penetrated you then your morally contracted to let him finish. You've inspected him and his penis and agreed to let him have sex with you. It is simply wrong to withdraw consent because he's not as good as you hoped, you want to check facebook or you realise you're missing your favourite TV show. You don't give a dog a bone and only let him have half a chew.

It's no big inconvenience to let him finish so would you agree or not that barring a valid excuse consent is for the whole duration of sex and cannot be withdrawn?
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Rape is being forcefully penetrate against will and is a serious crime. Claiming refusal to withdraw in in the middle of consensual sex is rape waters down that seriousness making it difficult for real rape victims to get justice.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Of course women would go the "its your body" route... its always about women right?
    ugh.. but i can't take sides... its like saying that if you stick your ding-a-ling in a woman, you are morally obligated to make her cum... some women are hard to make cum.
    So in a way i agree with the girls on here... not their stupid phrasing.. but the fact that if he doesn't cum... you are obligated to put a "to be continued"... and continue the quest...

    In the same way i would tell any guy that if you are going to stick your Peter in someones Valerie... you best motherfucking make her get hers as well... dont be a selfish lover...

    • update... hahahahahahahaha... good times

  • I make sure all my women sign legal documents
    so they are contractually obligated to let me finish

Most Helpful Girls

  • Rubbish. If I don't feel like it, then I just don't feel like it.
    And I just will not want to have sex anymore, and the guy should respect my wishes for wanting to stop.
    I don't understand nor agree with your logic. If you really feel uncomfortable and hate the process, why must you still force yourself to continue with it?
    And secondly, by your argument, it must go both ways. So if for example, my guy is not feeling it and wants to stop, by your logic, he cannot do so, he must force himself to continue until I reached orgasm.

  • i agree... let him finish and comply with the contract!!

    lol...

    • The thing is if he starts pounding her or sexually hurting her she needs to be able to stop

    • @likelyOK that's a different issue... purplepoppy is meaning consensual

    • So u do agree if it starts consensual but the partner is too rough a women can stop at anytime?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Rape is when a woman says no and the guy fucks you anyway. A woman can say no at any time. If he doesn’t stop that is rape.

  • Once you agree to let someone in your home, are you contractually obliged to let them try on all of your clothes?

    Yeh... what?

  • Ideas like this contribute to the normalization of sexual violence against women. A woman should never feel like she can't say no. There is no moral contract, it's your body so you can stop at any time for any reason. If he insults you, says or does something that you didn't want or just generally makes you uncomfortable in any way, you are not obligated to "let him finish". You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do.

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  • Unless you set a timer before he begins, you are obligated to let him finish, unless he takes all freaking day or starts rubbing you raw or acting like an ass hole. In which case, it's fair to knee him in the balls and ask "Are you finished?"
    You can always make sure your TV is visible and you have the remote nearby so that you can turn it on and watch your favorite show while you wait for him to finish. Have a cigarette or joint and a drink handy, too.

  • No. There is no obligation.

    Doesn’t matter the reason, if you want it to stop it stops now.

  • Consent can be taken away at any time

  • No I don’t agree

  • Maybe you 'inspected him' and everything was fine, but once you let him in, he starts pounding like a porn star and hurting you? Do you then say "STOP" and "NO" or just suffer through, based on your ideal?
    I believe that a woman can say "Stop" or "NO" at any time, and that is absolute! He should stop, for whatever reason, or it is rape!
    Any sexual play should be completely consensual, always, for both. Either can say "STOP" at any time, for whatever their reason!

    • Spot on this is exactly the point.

  • You're not contracted to, but it is kind of a cunt move. If it's a matter of the size of his dick, you got to see it before it went inside you, and you could have said no then.

    If the guy is boring in other ways, for fuck's sake, TEACH him what you like.

  • I don't always finish. Sometimes it's tough to get me to cum.

  • Well morally in a sense yes but of course legally no. It's a really big jerk move to do that to someone though.

  • What? I thought once a guy penetrates a girl he is finished? Am I doing something wrong?

  • There is no such thing in law as being morally contracted to do anything, least of all penetrative sex.

  • If he is taking too long, walk. Also if the guy is being too rough I would. I don't have casual so it's not a situation I run into, but women need to feel safe to leave whenever for whatever reason They want.

  • It is neither legally binding or morally required to let him finish. Sex is for pleasure, not an ethical commitment.

  • Nope. Stop trying to give advocate rape. Thanks.

    • to advocate* I am really getting tired of this bullshit.

  • You're not morally obligated to let anyone do anything to you for any reason. It's your body and you have a right to voice if you're uncomfortable and want them to stop and if they dont that's rape.

  • If you are no longer feeling comfortable, or change your mind, you have every right to stop and say no. If it is just bad sex and you are missing your fave TV show, well it would be a dick move, but you can make that dick move if you feel like it.

    • Are you saying consensual sex can't turn into rape? I think you are being naive.

  • Just rounder,,,

  • Nope

    • Thankfully people like you are out there. I am really starting to hate this site of demented people.

    • Then cut ties with those. I do routinely lol

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