Pace yourself. Sexual discovery is wonderful and only happens once. I found that outside-the-clothes play isn't worth much, what with modern foam bras and jeans, etc.
*My suggestion is that, if you want to, you go to open shirts or bare to the waist dependent on the circumstances. Complete access by hands and mouth for both of you. Kissing. sucking and hand caressing. How he attends to your breasts/nipples will hint at his sexuality. How you caress him will inspire him that you want to be intimate. This should last for 2 (or more) times together before you advance to below the waste "wet" intimacy.
*The next step can be mutual masturbation. Hand job/fingering. Do it together. Uncover/unzip and familiarize yourselves with your intimate parts. Get him to cum. Perhaps you will to, but less likely. But his hand will arouse you anyway. This might also last two sessions.
*Now listen here. Under no circumstances are you to initiate a blow job or be guided into it unless and until he has already given you oral sex FIRST. Once your shirt is open/off and he has full access, it is an easy transition to your waste and lady parts for him. He should WANT to do it for you. If he isn't getting to it, tell him you want him to lick you and don't be shy. You can even do it partly dressed to make you feel more secure. And he should be eager and capable of giving you an orgasm by oral.
*THEN, you can initiate a blowjob. It will not make you seem cheap or slutty because HE HAS ALREADY LICKED YOU. He will just be grateful. Swallowing? If his payload is small or watery, go ahead. If is uncomfortable like phlegm (sorry) you can just drool it back onto his belly when you are finished. When you are going to do this, best to have something like a face cloth to mop up with or spit into.
Do it if you feel like it and then you will know its right
If you don't feel it yet, then don't
If you give him head up to you if you want to swallow
thanks... I definitely hope he showered... lol...
He will if you ask him
Swallowing is a personal choice. Don’t be forced into doing anything you don’t want to. It’s part of being an assertive adult.
Do it your way girl! If he doesn’t enjoy it he doesn’t deserve it.
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Just have fun and see what happens. And if you're okay with swallowing, definitely swallow. Afterwards, you could act surprised if you think it's necessary. I would think a girl who swallowed after her first blowjob was a trooper. On the other hand, it may be a bad idea to not be honest. Just be you. He'll either like you for who you are or he won't. It's best to find out right away.
I hope it goes well. Enjoy.
Let yourself go, have fun with it. Swallow if you want to, I'm sure he will enjoy it. If you don't want to then don't.
Thanks... I"m really looking forward to tonite... I like him and dont want to mess it up
If the sex is what "messes things up" for him then he isn't the right guy for you. It takes time to learn what your partner likes, it's part of the fun to be experimental.
Be honest with your experience level to him. You can still have fun with him but any girl I'm with I would assume they have had lots of previous partners/experience with the same partner in a LT relationship during their late teens, and would expect that. Doesn't mean you can't explore out of your comfort zone with him though! Have fun and good luck!
Bite your lip, spread your legs, and sit back. Guys know what to do. 🤣
What happened to being married first that's
Immoral Improper Doctrine don't do it
so what ended up happening?
you're 18, right?
Let yourself go and enjoy , you can decided on the runtime to swallow or not seeing his expressions , maybe he would direct you what he wants to do, you should be comfortable enough with him to talk about it before you do.
Well that between you 2. At your age it sll a new experience just dont go the the bad side like getting a abused. Getting pregnant ans things like that
definitely... no abuse... and no kids... not for me
u like swallowin?
yeah,... I take it you do too
hmmm i would like to cum in ur mouth honey
Go with the flow
Don't think about it too much. If you want to and he wants to, go ahead. :)
Would like you a lot more if you swallowed. I don't think it would make you look cheap. Have fun, that's like the big idea anyways.
Thank you... I kinda learned it's rude to spit... but some guys think swallowing is bad... a girl shouldn't do that... so thought I would ask in here,
definitely swallow, it shows you really like him
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