My boyfriend wants me to have a threesome with another guy?

I am 19, boyfriend is 23 and there's this guy I've always had a crush on (27) before and after my boyfriend. he just really turns me on. I've masturbated to thoughts of him before. my boyfriend is fully aware of this and has suggested a threesome. he said he wanted me to live out my fantasies but he wouldn't want him fucking me without him present? should I accept? is it a trap?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You know what? Either you have a too open finded boyfriend or a big dickhead. And you are a slut wanted to be fucked by your ex in a threesome.

    What makes you even consider this as an option. Trust me - your boyfriend will also fuck you and let you go like a waste cum disposal bag - as you have not created any respect for yourself acting like a whore.

  • I don’t think it is a trap, but the feelings could change after you do it. But it sounds like you will not be able to get rid of the desire without doing it. Also, if it is just the one guy you want to do it with, maybe it is not just a physical attraction.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sounds like fun until your boyfriend accuses you of enjoying sex more with the other guy and then breaks up with you.

    • Or maybe he'll just be happy for her

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  • Do you trust your boyfriend? Do you have any reason to believe he would set up a trap for you? Because if you don't... It probably isn't.

    If I knew my wife fantasized about another guy and I thought she was interested in a threesome, I'd probably make the same suggestion myself. So my gut says it's not a trap, but people are different, and you know him better than I do.

  • Sounds like a mmf threesome is something that he's interested in and is using your crush on that other guy as a way of sweetening the deal for you. You should go for it 👍

  • Sounds like a good time to me.

  • It might make for some great orgasms for you. I would make sure you have tons of condoms available first.

  • If your boyfriend is encouraging you, then why not?
    Does the other guy have any idea what you two are thinking about doing?

    • yes he does

    • Have you decided yet?

    • Sure

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  • Well i would say have an open conversation with him. If he's trying to trap you he obviously can't have a good open conversion about how he's feeling.

    On having the threesome, if you and everyone is open to it go for it

  • its not a trap. go for it. but be clear with your boyfriend about exactly what he is okay with you doing. but the chances of a guy fucking you in front of your boyfriend is rare. having another dick present would be a turnoff to me as a straight male

  • Your boyfriend is a special type of guy

  • Go get spit roasted if your man is down for it

  • U shud break up and be with the guy ur attracted to dont have a threesome ew

  • Could be setting up a MFM for a chance at a FMF later. Just a thought.

    • My first thought too lol

  • A sad trap.

  • yikes

  • Hard to say lol do it if you want

  • Go with your gut your only young once

  • sounds like fun

  • go for it

  • Dont do it. Will ruin the relationship

  • If you want to have sex with that other guy that and I see a go for it I let my girlfriend do it

    • Do you want to do it?

    • oh yes

    • Then you should definitely do it I think more guys should let their girlfriends to do that