How would I know if my ex wants to get back with me because he wants a relationship or he just want to have sex with me?

My ex seems like he wants to get back together with me but I'm not sure if it's because he wants to have sex with me. I know if we got back together we would definitely have sex so I'm not sure if that's why he wants to get back with me. Is there a way to determine why he want to get back with me?
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  • Only one way to know for sure, tell your ex that you want to marry him. :)

    • How does that work? Before we get married we'll have sex so if he's with me just to have sex saying I want to get married wouldn't change anything. He can say let's work on the relationship and he doesn't have a problem with getting married. If you are getting back together nobody expects to plan a wedding right away right? I don't see how that will determine if he wants a relationship or just sex. When I ask this question, I'm not just talking about an honest guy because an honest guy would be honest about what he wants and put it out there. So I don't expect he'll leave me alone or stop trying to get back together because I tell him I want to get married he'll just hide it.

    • Well I said that half-jokingly, yea it you already had sex with him in that past he is unlikely to let you to deny him sex until marriage, but it's something that you should had done from the get go, if you wanted to make sure that a man is not with you just to get some. If a man is really serious about you then he should marry you, there is not other way to tell for sure. At your age you likely already know that sex is the main reason that men are dating women, so it's not easy to tell if a man 'only' want sex.

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  • Take sex off the table and see how he reacts

    • That's the thing he's not asking for sex. However I know he's a highly sexual person and loves to have sex. Therefore it makes me wonder what are his motives because if he was asking for sex it would be different because I can ask him that's why you want to get back together for sex and we can have that conversation. Then he'll know exactly where I stand and then I'll know exactly but he's not asking for sex and I know he loves sex so I'm puzzled if he's trying not to make it an issue or pretend that's not what he wants but it's really what he wants. I've seen him several times and he hasn't even asked for a kiss so I'm wondering what's he's up to.