Why do women always accuse men of being players or cheating?

[chris_987]

A lot of girls accuse me of always cheating or talking to other girls. Lol I barely ever approach women but for someone reason they all seem to that every women I talk too I’ve somehow slept with.

So do you girl think that women are really secretively horny and ready to sleep with every guy. Or that your average guys just have so much charm that they could seduce anyone. Or and this is the one I’m leaning to the most, women are just really insecure.

[aicarg]

Well this question has me triggered. It really has to do with how the guy carries himself when interacting with other women, as well as his track record of women. I'm generally one that remains overly trustworthy, but gets screwed over. Was screwed over not too long ago by my boyfriend - things are complicated now.

But as your update states, it's mainly due to insecurities. Men have them too. Example when they get overly protective when a male friend gives them a ride home, chats the girl up and makes the guy wrap his arm around her.

[chris_987]

No need to feel triggered I’m just asking questions

[JananiiSrii]

You're quite correct, it has to do with insecurity. Your girlfriend's probably afraid you'll get interested in the other girl. Honestly it has a lot to do with past experiences for some, where their boyfriends were talking to another girl and they ended up together after breakup. For others it's just over the top possessiveness. Different women, and even men, do it for different reasons.

[chris_987]

Are you afraid that your boyfriend can get any girls he wants

[JananiiSrii]

It's not about the guy getting any girl he wants, but rather about him being attracted to some girl he's hanging out with. Personally, I'm not too worried about that happening with my boyfriend since we've been together for quite some time Lol, but I can certainly understand why some girls are. I mean wouldn't you be worried if your new girlfriend started talking to cute guys all the time?

[chris_987]

No I would be worried if it was done out in the open, but if it was done behind my back I would ask her if she was hiding something from me

[genericname85]

well i think if you're a cheater, i think it's being fair to be accused of that xD but considering "players", you shouldn't hate players. you should hate the game.

[Sevenpointfive]

as long as their meal ticket is still around he can cheat. that's what i've learned from girls who have this mentality. they say, "HE ALWAYS COMES BACK TO ME". lol

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Women do it too.. most of the time the accuse when they are to you and feel guilty so hope you are too so you can be the one that looks bad infront of everyone

[smoogle1702]

Women are insecure, or jealous. They're probably overthinking about everything and they will always be afraid of you cheating, just make sure to tell them u would never do that and reassure her every once in a while, and they'll feel better.

[chris_987]

But we’re does all this insecurities come from? Like I should be more insecure of her because I know that she has 1000 unread messages from dudes. We’re as guys have zero females trying to talk to them.

[smoogle1702]

*unread*. we are usually grossed out by those dudes. Personally whenever there's dudes in my dms i prank them with my boyfriend. I dunno where the insecureties come from, maybe its cause there are so many girls that are so pretty, and maybe its cause they have been in toxic relationships. its different for every girl