What do you guys think of girls and boys who want sex after marriage?

Question

There are many issues with relationships revolving around sex. There are people who think you should have sex to know if its enjoyable with them or not, or how they might behave in the bedroom, and then there are people who stick to their religious beliefs and let their future partner know no sex before marriage. Of course, sex after marriage isn't only followed by religious people, i know there are types of people who likes to make one wait and see if the person they are pursuing is really into them or is he one of those who is looking to date for a short period of time and available sex partner.

With that being said, i want your honest opinions on people who prefer to have sex after marriage. Would you respect them more because of their decision? Do you look at them differently? Would you keep that person around because they might be a "keeper" ?

Thoughts guys?

Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

Having sex doesn't mean that your relationship revolves around it, it's simply an important part of a functional and healthy relationship.

What a relationship definitely *shouldn't* revolve around is arbitrary rules and some worthless signatures on a worthless piece of paper.

I think that people who are "waiting for marriage" are cripplingly insecure and naive and that they will most definitely never find anything meaningful, because their entire mindset is senseless, backwards and failing to recognize what the actual priorities in romance are.

But it is everyone's prerogative to make their relationships dysfunctional the way they personally want, I guess.

egarcia1360 · Accepted Answer

I personally have nothing against premarital sex, but I also have nothing against people who don't want to have it. If a couple is happy waiting and trusts that they'll be able to figure out their differences in the bedroom when they have no choice, that's none of my business. What does bother me is when those same people get all self-righteous and start lecturing everyone else on how morally corrupt we are or whatever; it's annoying and it's not going to change anyone's mind.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Definitely a keeper. But then I'm in the same boat. I think waiting until marriage is a good way to go because you can't get pregnant if you don't have sex; and you also can't get STDs. Religion may have kept me chaste when I was a kid; but science has kept me chaste as an adult.

1CentWorth · Answer

just fuck and find out. Worst case scenario is that you love it so much yo become a willing whore. But, what's so bad about that?

Bhavin2184 · Answer

I mean it's their personal choice and nobody should judge them.

Dargil · Answer

It's a life choice like any other. I would need sexual intimacy in a relationship before marriage but could defer intercourse until wedding day.

Arjunaguy · Answer

I think it's their choice and I would respect that. I feel it makes the girl special who the guy saved his virginity for. It makes me feel they value relationships more than normal people do and such relationships usually last longer.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

They are so pretty and inocent, i whish i whas so strong like them to hold back my dick thil then. Can somebody imaginate how good the guy will feel afthe so many yares of not cuming? :D

Browneye57 · Answer

It's not sex AFTER marriage - everybody expects sex after marriage. You're talking about sex BEFORE marriage.

If you waiting for marriage for religious reasons then just find someone like-minded and plan it together.

For everybody else, sex is part of relationships and romance. What exactly are you hung up about on it?

I will tell you that if you get the sexual compatibility thing wrong with a mate, you sign yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and aggravation. I used to think shacking up and playing house was a bad thing, now I think it's a good idea. You don't REALLY get to know someone 'till you live with them. Their true colors really come out then.

NorthwestRider · Answer

They are religious nuts who still think it is the 12th century lol

PureHuman · Answer

I support sex after marriage. I'm against sex before marriage.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I am one such guy. To any such girl, or any other such guy, I say: You are making the wisest and safest choice possible. More power to you!

haruo · Answer

Well that's completely based on the type of people someone looks for. Personally some people wouldn't really care cos it's one's own decision to take when they wanna get laid. Someone might prefer keep that person around and someone might not. Someone prefers their partner to virgin and someone doesn't

In_Trance · Answer

You make decisions that are right for you. That's all that matters.  In my own opinion... I think it's fkn retarded

BulletproofNY · Answer

Do you mean sexy before marriage?

Bshu2jdbxb · Answer

I m one of them

ratulju · Answer

It's depend on situation. who have urges if they coincides sex must happen. And sex can not be a matter of discussion before or after marriage. Do u know that after marriage u will not sex with any other? Or ur marriage will be a successful one?