Why do girls never offer me sex?

[herculesnnnnnnn]

I dont get it, i work out n stuff, go to the gym a lot n try get my body muscular n buff... but still no girls seem to take intrest in me,

most guys lose virginity by now i think, im almost 23 n still a virgin... its not like im hideious either, i am a little socially awkward... but i dont think i look too bad, i look decent i think... some hot girls have even eyed me a few times and displaced signs of having a crush on me (smiling at me, sitting beside me, trying to talk to me...) so i must not look bad... but how comes other guys have been offered sex already by the age of 18 or possibly younger, but they never offered me yet when im 22? i know i dont go out much and only leave the house like once every week or two... but u would think i would be offered sex at least once in 22yrs? nope,
whats wrong with me? why no girls like me? im starting to think i must be actually ugly if other guys lost virginity already n girls offer other guys sex but not me... but then i wonder why some girls showed signs of having a crush on me... maybe they are jus intrested by the unknown since im so quite and mysterious, but dont actually find me physically hot... jus intrigued by my weirdness

HMMMMMMMMM

[PrudentGuy]

Hey, I think you're a decent guy so I'll be very straightforward.

1) although girls are just as sexual as guys, they won't come running to us and scream "fuck me now". No. Never unless they are whores punting for customers.

2) girls feel. This means, in order to enter her vagina, you must enter her head first.

3) social stigma in general are against girls, not guys. This means guy can go around asking girls for sex and there is no word to describe him. But if a girl go around asking for sex even here, they are called "sluts" even when they do not ask for money.

4) girls get pregnant and cannot run away from it. Abortion to many are murder. Guys can. And we are infamous throughout the history of mankind.

With the above, you should be able to deduce the answer you need.

Hence to get your First girl, stop asking for sex the first 10 dates. Be a friend to her. Shakespeare called it "woo her" (Twelfth Night).

Yes, be a poet. LOL! Be a singer. Talk like the "Song of Solomon" (Bible book of love) LOL!

Girls like to be mind-teased. Looks are important, but to have sex she must trust that you're a responsible person.

Yet many girls like "bad guys" too. Ya girls are complex. Keep trying and change your strategy, and don't be afraid to fail. Eventually you will succeed. Good luck!

[Chazt3r]

You're going about it all wrong bro. This shit doesn't just get handed to ya. Talk to girl. Get girl to like you, you like her. Date. 2nd date then maybe just maybe you get the pussy on the third. But girls aren't just gonna run up to you and ask to meet you behind the parking lot for a quickie.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

thats a shame lol, if i ruled the world i would make it totally acceptable for girls to do that lol

[Chazt3r]

I'm sure it has happened. Just very unlikely. Best of luck with your quick fuck.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

lawl

[Anonymous]

Why would they? If you want easy sex, go to prostitutes lol.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

but other guys get for free,,,, im not wasting money when other guys get for free... id rather stay a virgin forever lol

[Opinion Owner]

Not all do...

[LeeannaDD]

Try developing a personality first...

[herculesnnnnnnn]

u can develope them? i thought ur born with or without 1

[LeeannaDD]

No you have it confused with having a big penis. Lol

[herculesnnnnnnn]

oh lol, maybe u can act a different way and say different things to give an impression to others that ur personality is different now... but i think ur core personality / ur soul will always be the same

[SereChiba]

You think they’ll just offer you?

[herculesnnnnnnn]

they offer other guys it, they must do, or how do other guys lose virginity? im pretty sure no guy asks a girl for sex lol

[herculesnnnnnnn]

i think u will get slapped 90 percent of the time if u ever ask a girl that lol

[SereChiba]

People do go out offering others sex, where did you get that lol

[herculesnnnnnnn]

tahts a shame, people obviously like sex if u look at the millions of views 1 porn video gets... so i dont know why we aren't jus offering sex to each other instead of fucking ourselves... its sad man

[ecfresh]

Many of those guys went on dates and had relationships with girls. You are not entitled to have sex just because you look good. Women are people too, not just existing for sexual pleasure.

[MiamiMadness]

Ask nicer?

[herculesnnnnnnn]

lmao

[Browneye57]

You need better game, and you need to work on those social skills.
Go here and read: www.therationalmale.com
And here: www.theartofmanliness.com

You need a man-makeover.

Love can't start 'till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation.

[Thatsamazing]

Because girls don't do that. They don't want it as much as we do. We pursue and they receive, per evolutionary biology.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

so if all guys did what i did and jus never tried and never talked to girls... all guys would be virgins too?

[Thatsamazing]

Guys aren't virgins. We just have a first time. Only girls are virgins. Guys have no physiological or biological indicator of virginity. And no, we wouldn't, because your "what if" isn't ever going to exist. It's a pointless hypothetical.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

im retarded and all that gone over my head, in simple terms please lol, no need to over complicate it... im jus saying... if every guy did what i did... only went over once a week to the shop, never tried.. and never talked to girls... do u think most guys would also be virgins (not have their first time) ?

[herculesnnnnnnn]

went out once a week*

[herculesnnnnnnn]

even if it isn't likely happen... do u think most guys would never have their first time?

[Thatsamazing]

It doesn't matter-- what you are saying won't ever happen. That is the point. We, guys, are *always going to try, because we want sex so badly.*

[Thatsamazing]

But fine, sure, if no guys ever tried, despite wanting it more, then eventually girls would actually try more, more often. So some guys would still get to have sex, obviously.

[herculesnnnnnnn]

wow lol

[Aakash_Hangargi]

The man who ask such questions will never get the girl, but a man who would take chance would have a chance at least 👍

[Twalli]

Girls just don't go around offering sex. You should try to ask one out. FYI, I lost my virginity when I was 27.5.

[In_Trance]

It's most likely something wrong with your approach

[herculesnnnnnnn]

the no approach approach is a bad approach?

[In_Trance]

Apparently

[Anonymous]

because women normally play a passive role in human mating unfortuneately.

[Anonymous]

All of that porn watching and wacking off isn't helping matters...

[Opinion Owner]

As for the comments from the girls about developing a personality, or telling him to go see a prostitute...

Is the dating pool corrupt? ↗