Do I have to be embarrassed about how I look while having sex?

[Anonymous]

I am pretty self concious and also very insecure.
I have a problem when having sex that I cannot relax and enjoy the moment. It makes it not much pleasurable.
I get very insecure and embarrassed when I think about how stupid I would look while letting myself go. Like an ugly orgasm face or something. I think the guy I am with must notice it and think I look stupid as well. I don't know if I am making too big of a deal out of it.
But basically I am embarrassed to show my expressions when feeling pleasure. face or body.
So I try to conceal it and keep myself contained but in the same breath I am restricting the pleasure we both feel because I am making myself think too much or tense up.
The guy I was with likes when the girl makes noise but I couldn't do that. It just didn't come naturally to me because I always try to conceal my expression. I think I will look stupid and embarassing.
It kills the pleasure in the bedroom but I don't know what to do.

[TadCurious]

You're just going to have get past these mental blocks that prevent you from experiencing the pleasure you deserve. Do you know what the sexiest thing is about a woman when it comes to sex? It's not having a "perfect" (whatever that is supposed to be) body. It's being comfortable in her own skin and accepting of her body the way it is and being able to let go and be in the moment. You are able to be that way too if you come to realize the negative thoughts in your head are bogus.

[Browneye57]

"I am pretty self concious and also very insecure. "
I quit reading here. Start with a shrink. They is way not normal. Probly you're just not ready. And you're confused about what's really important.

[Neko911]

Lol guys don't care. I know for a fact my face also when having sex looks dumb, And so does his when getting oral. Some people just make silly faces. It's fine. I even sound like a mouse during, apparently my moans and stuff sound like that. I used to hate it. But eventually I got over it because he told me it was cute and didn't bother him. Men won't care, he'll just be happy to know he's the one causing the noise and faces you make

[NaughtybyNature546]

No just close your eyes and enjoy

[Red_Arrow]

So true!

[funride74]

No one ever had a model face while organsms. If you stop thinking bout it, it's a next step to really focus on the organsms and not on how you look. Fuckin is not Insta

[Cellestial]

You're preventing him from seeing how good he is at pleasuring you. So it doesn't only kills the pleasure for you but for him as well

[Twalli]

I love watching my girlfriend's face while having sex. Seeing her eyes closed in pleasure is amazing

[najekim]

Most people look and sound like they're being tortured during intense sex and orgasms. Don't worry about it and let yourself go.

[CloudsOFNeveermore]

You need someone to be really relaxed with and those negative feelings will dissapear someone with who you feel loved, safe, protected

[herculesnnnnnnn]

no but ur vagina should be giving off the smell of old damp dog biscuits

[Anonymous]

If he truly loves you, he won't care

[Anonymous]

During times of pussy, we are NOT thinking about your face.

[Anonymous]

No need to hold back or think about that, he might even be thinking about himself like that but not care because you’re making a love and it doesn’t matter