Is it normal to feel uncomfortable that my boyfriend falls women who express fetish of feet?

Why is it hard for me to accept my boyfriend's fetish with feet. It is normal that I feel uncomfortable that he follows certain woemn on social media who post pictures about feet and wearing heels?

Any advice?
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  • You should probably leave him.

    Look, basically, this is something that you are never going to get over and he certainly won't.
    This means that, in the bedroom, you two may not have good sexual chemistry. But, what do I know?
    Does he bring his foot fetish into the bedroom with you in an unpleasant way? For instance, require you to wear heels or do things with your feet that you don't want to do?

    My point is that, in the bedroom, both people should feel completely at ease being themselves and being at ease with the person they are with - fetishes and all. That's good sexual chemistry. If you have any unease in the bedroom right now, that means you likely are having a sexual chemistry issue. It is basically impossible for those to get better, so...

    • He does ask for some request and honestly, I am okay with it. I enjoy pleasing him and I feel comfortable doing that for him. The thing is that it makes me uncomfortable is that he follows girls on social media who post about their feet and wearing heels.

    • I am not sure what to say but I will say these 3 things: 1. Enjoy having a foot fetishist boyfriend/SO who loves feet. He will give you pedicures and rub your feet and make you feel like a queen as long as you let him have access. Wear sandals or peep-toe shoes and he's powerless against you. 2. The price you are paying - is "following girls on social media" is harmless really. It helps keep him alive and maintains is foot fetish interest which is a large part of who he is. While I do not have foot fetish (*), I have a strong fetish which is akin to it. Try to keep in mind The Old Italian Housewives Proverb: "It doesn't matter where your husband gets his appetite as long as he eats at home." 3. Consider indulging yourself. If you have a kink that you can surf for - for example gay porn (lots of women are into it because it's 2x the penises and hunky guys) - then indulge in it. Meanwhile, does he know that you know that he follows foot fetish media providers? If so, then what's fair is fair and he should not have a problem with you indulging yourself. (*) If you have any questions or need some insight about his foot fetish, you can PM me whenever you wish.

    • * in a few spots, I wrote "is" when I meant "his". I do this a lot.

  • You can leave him for lick and Kiss your feet, you should enjoy from it, also you can polish your toes and wear sexy socks for please him..

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  • One thing I don't understand or know how to deal with

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