Would you be bothered if your partner has sex only to please you?
Would it bother you?
(Random question that popped in my head cause I'm so bored!)
My first girlfriend whas exactly like this.
It doesn't bother me so much, but make me sad and disapointed to know that i'm not able to make her horny for me and she will never ask for sex from me.
But still happy that i have such a good girl, i try all the time to compensate whit other actions, present, help in the house, events in the city. So she can't be able to blame me for such a thing like "i give you sex and what you give me?"
You have problem whit Sakura? Sasuke? :))))
No no sakuras fine 😁😁.
teach Boruto some fucing jutu, WTF are you doing whit that idiot? he should alredy know Kirin!!!
To be honest I felt like that sometimes with the first wife. She was feeling frisky I just wanted to watch the TV. But I helped her to fullfil her needs..
Did it cause any problems in your relationship?
Sadly at the time it was having problems. We had four daughters I had , had the op do no more babies. She had finished with her second boyfriend, we were trying to get along. I felt sometimes as just her relief in-between bfs...
Honestly it would bother me because I wanna be able to satisfy him too, it would make me happy to be able to make him happy, and if he doesn't care, not gonna lie, even tho this is a bit self absorbed, I'd feel like I'm lacking something.
If you knew that the reason he feels that way is cause of his own thought process, would it still affect you?
Like that way you know it's not cause you're lacking something.
I doubt it'll make a difference although that wouldn't be his fault. I just tend to overthink things and my own insecurities play a big role in that. However I'm currently working on those insecurities. But also part of why I wouldn't be able to be in such a relationship is that I love the idea of turning someone on, it is a turn on for me, and satisfying that person also turns me on and makes me happy. So I'd probably feel turned off if he's just pleasing me as a chore, just because I enjoy it. It's one sided and I don't like that
This would bother me immensely 🥺🎀🌸
Could you explain why?
I can't really explain it... I just read your post and it made me sad... Many apologies 💖
No need to apologise, I was just asking to understand how people think. It's totally understandable why one would feel sad.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, it would bother me a lot. I'd honestly much prefer not having sex at all over having sex with someone who had no interest in it.
Well we'll talk about it... and if he doesn't mind doing it for me ( as in he's not forcing himself or thinks he has to) if he is okay with doing it and not feeling like he has to. If he's doing it because he know I like it and want to do it for me that's so sweet. That's just how some asexual people are. It's normal. I'd appreciate him.
Yes, honestly I think it would. Because even with good intentions, I wouldn't want someone to do something they really don't like. Sex is supposed to be about to people sharing an intimate act together. I want to have sex with someone that would get as much pleasure as me.
And sex won't be the same as would with someone who really enjoys it
Yes it would bother me cause i prefer to do the pleasing. Like i would hope we please eachotherr but if only one could be pleased then i prefer to please them
Yes and i would stop having sex with them my hands gets the job done
No it’s hot to me actually
Could you elaborate?
I don't think I would have sex at all.
Would be fine for me
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