Is this a turn off?

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Is it a turn off to want to wait to have sex and making it clear?

leftis25 · Accepted Answer

No. Look if the other one really likes u he wouldn't even think about sex.. i had sex with manyyy girls.. dont wanna look cocky but i am good at flirting and stuff.. i workout i dont drink and smoke.. i get girls easy. If a girl doesn't want sex i just move to the next one.. but if i really really like the girl.. like i am in love with her.. i dont even think of sex.. and i had 2 girls in my life like this.. but turned out to be liars and left me but thats not the point 😂 if i can wair for sex anyone can trust me.. as long as the other guy is totally in love with u.. i loved every minute i spended with those 2 girls i was in love with.. with or without sex.. i just liked everything about them soo much that i didn't even think about sex.. it wad crazy

Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

For many people, waiting to have sex can allow them to see if the person they're about to get into bed with is someone that they can have faith in.

The more you get to know someone, the more you can suss out their character, and try to figure out if they're someone who won't take advantage of you, won't go further than your limits, and will respect you.

When you wait, you build up sexual tension and fantasies, which can make the whole thing way more fun.

When you wait to have an emotional connection with that person and then have sex, it can be a way to bring you two even closer.

AustinMan · Answer

Depends on the guy. If he has your same value system, then no. If not, then probably.

Requ1m · Answer

I have no experience whatsoever, so tale this with a grain of salt. However, I do believe that waiting could be a bit if a turn off, based on the fact that your partner is not willing to go as far as you are, as fast as you.

That being said, I do think it is a good idea, and not something that should put a burden on a relationship.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Not necessarily.

Bhavin2184 · Answer

No it's not you can wait and take your time.

JoyGirl · Answer

Nope.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

For me yes, why should i wait when i alredy did that thill i meet the girl?

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes it is

Dchrls78104 · Answer

It's not. I would wait till marriage for sex. I have already made that clear.

swettannie · Answer

lol no

In_Trance · Answer

Depends why and how long you want to wait

Anonymous · Answer

No, we just find pussy elsewhere until you let us have it.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep Unless you're a virgin... then a guy might be desperate enough for your bullshit.

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