Do you always ask a new SO or potential SO how many people they’ve slept with?

[thegirlfromthething]

And when is it appropriate to do so?
I’m fine with telling a boyfriend or potential boyfriend if he asks but I think that’s something to bring up once you’ve been on at least a couple dates. I would definitely be curious about his past but I’m not sure I would ask him.

[loveseeker9824]

It's not something that comes up immediately. Last girl i went on a date with told me as a way to impress me. 30 guys... And she mentioned to me everything they did and what she liked, and I didn't ask for a second date.
Last girlfriend I had we discussed it before we actually had sex

[JackSmy]

Why do you need to know, unless you are thinking they mess around, and might have HIV or other diseases? If so, why be with someone like that?

[thegirlfromthething]

I’m curious about his past sexual habits. It’s a turn off if he’s been with too many other women.

[JackSmy]

@thegirlfromthething It's better to know, sooner, than later, if he is a 'player' and has had some diseases!! If you ask him, and he gets offended, then he is probably someone you shouldn't be with!! :)

[CapricornHoney]

Nope, I never really do. It’s just something eventually comes up into conversation down the line but I’ve never outright asked.

[saffoler]

You should always ask someone you might have sex with. I think 3 or 4 dates in would be a good time to bring it up.

[LiamSawyer]

No, she can tell me if she wants but she is the only one I care about at that moment!

[Agape93]

Never do, I don’t care and it’s none of my business anyways.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I agree with you, but eventually I would ask

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I always ask and olso why they are no more togeder. I do it afther a couple of dates like afther around 1-2 months.

[cth96190]

No, because I do not care.

[Rippersavage]

I never ask because I don't care. Her body count could be 0 or 10000, I don't care either way

[mefirst2000]

You're 18 years of age what the f*** control yourself you should not even have account

[thegirlfromthething]

This site is for people ages 13 and up. 18-year-olds are welcome.

[mefirst2000]

Yes i understand that. I also am willing to say I'm sorry for being so harsh. The fact is respect of one's self has diminished generation after generation. I will stop there. My opinion has little wieght wt such harsh deliverance I get that. U kids enjoy ur life. Dream if one life one marriage it's awesome

[thegirlfromthething]

What does being on this site or asking this question have to do with self-respect?

[mefirst2000]

Trump respects goes directly hand-in-hand with your account so to speak it's late and I'm tired sure you understand that have a good night

[mefirst2000]

Sorry I did not proofread that and I'm going to bed you fuys have a good night

[thegirlfromthething]

Try answering again when you’re not too exhausted to make sense.

[mefirst2000]

Yes man. Take a deep breath on that one and that lout you have a good night

[COMMODOREII]

If it comes up in the conversation yes.

[bklynbadboy1]

I always ask

[OpenNudist]

Personally Yes , I would like to know but with that being said I don't go out of my way to ask.

[In_Trance]

Never. There's no benefit of knowing and chances are, the number won't be accurate anyway. So, why bother?

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

I never ask that question. It's pointless.

[Bshu2jdbxb]

Never

[Oric50]

Ask at a meaningful moment