In your sexual fantasies, are you more often the giver or receiver of pleasure?

[thegirlfromthething]

And what do you think this says about your approach to sex?
Of course both partners can take pleasure in a sex act where one is a passive recipient and the other is an active giver, but try to think of whether you’re the giver or receiver when you fantasize. I think I keep it pretty even- there’s a good mix of pleasing and being pleased.

[Kurαȷ]

Giver, I pretty much never fantasize about receiving, and I don't care for receiving in practice either.

But when I say that, what I'm referring to is more along the lines of "taking care of the needs" of someone who is digging their claws into my back.

[Haelaeix123]

I tend to keep it pretty even in my fantasies but in reality im more of a giver than reciever

[wingattebaby16]

I am the receiver coz for me it is easier and more stimulating fantasizing it is being done to me, esp if what is happening is Forbidden, taboo, and frowned upon by society.

I mean like being seduced by your boss or the boy you are babysitting

[Vegas67]

I babysit

[wingattebaby16]

@Vegas67 you seduce or let yourself be seduced by the girls you babysit?

[Vegas67]

Seduction is always more fun for me Sweetheart. I want you to be under my spell from the very beginning. Then when we move into taboo territory my partner just goes right along.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Both, same as you. But sometimes it’s nice to just lay back and imagine a hot guy pleasuring you (or a hot girl, if you’re in the mood for that).

[AmandaYVR]

When I conjure up images, without really being conscious of it, I am on top.
But I don't want to dominate anyone. I just like giving pleasure. It's skillful and magnanimous. As well as fun for me.

[IU_092]

I'm the reciever~~ i feel guilty and i want to give just as much, but he insists he enjoys it so...

[Apple1996]

Most of my fantasies are me recieving

[ecfresh]

I’m the giver, both fantasy and reality

[LiamSawyer]

Always the giver!

[Agape93]

Giver

[Gwenhwyfar]

Some people are good at inducing pleasure

[Agape93]

❤️❤️

[Agape93]

It’s my pride

[Gwenhwyfar]

Especially when they tell the other person they’re not allowed to finish till they’re dripping Hypothetically speaking, of course

[Agape93]

Of course. If I’m teasing someone, I’m in control. You don’t finish until I say you can.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Even if the person really needs to

[Agape93]

Even then. I want them to quake and beg for release

[Gwenhwyfar]

I have a feeling they do

[Agape93]

I’ll think about it ;)

[Dargil]

About the same.

[Nik1hil]

I am the giver..

[Rippersavage]

Giver

[Tunasub]

Both for me I think...

[oldermale]

Fantasy lately involves me being tied to my bed and dominated by female friend.

[swettannie]

i'm the giver

[COMMODOREII]

Giver mostly.

[ccal28]

Giving pleasure makes me feel more pleasure both in real life and fantasy

[OpenNudist]

In most of my sexual fantasies I am the giver mainly because I love the way a girl tastes and feels as she cums inside my mouth.

[yash_22]

I am more of giver ❤️🤙🏻

[In_Trance]

giver

[REDHOTLINE]

I am really plesure giver person its very important for me. If I dont give pleasure I can't take pleasure.

[askmewhy66]

I give and give and then give some more ! Now I am the best bj receiver ever on this earth. Or my girlfriend s tongue in my a hole receiver. Lol

[nudeNhorny]

giver