Would you agree to do a full rape role play, if your partner wanted it?

I really want to be with someone who is willing to roleyplay rape with me. Like where they actually force me down, get my clothes off, force my legs apart, and force themselves inside of me. Then ofc all while slapping me, choking me, etc.
I am so scared to ask someone to do this IRL because I’m scared of them judging this kink. It seems more extreme than what lots of rape fantasy girls want. :/ I feel like some guys might not want to and trying to see on here if maybe I’m wrong.
Yes I would do this
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Maybe, but I kinda have a problem with doing it. (Comment why down below)
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No I wouldn’t do this
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  • I've done this, but I made a video of her first where she asks me on camera and explains why she wants it, as I wanted to make sure I had some legal cover just in case. But I had a girl who really got off on having her clothes torn off of her as part of this, and so we'd go to Goodwill or other places to buy cheap clothes for this purpose (I'm too frugal to tear up nice/expensive clothes!). Another girl's fantasy involved uniformed authority (police, FBI, military, etc.) and being "taken into custody" and being violated while helpless.

    This is a pretty common type of fantasy that women have, and being involved in the BDSM community, the women are far more likely to really want to live out the fantasy with someone they trust. As such, a few different women have wanted that kind of a fantasy, and it's not any kind of a shock or surprise for me.

    I would say that this is probably not something you're going to want to ask a "vanilla" guy to do with you, as they're likely to judge you, but even if they don't, they're unlikely to have the experience and the mindset to bring it to reality in a safe way or in a successful way. You're much more likely to get what you want with someone who is into BDSM and has had some formal instruction (especially on safety and limits) and who is used to that kind of mindset and takes the responsibility seriously. They're also far less likely to judge you.

    • Smart man to take that video

  • Maybe, but I kinda have a problem with doing it.
    I see a lot of movies when womans has been raped, especialy WAR movie. It whas drutal and animalic. To see a man going so low in order just to have sex and olso other keep wanting some time the same woman make me want to kill thous guy and olso make me whander if that girl is stil inocent just because she didn't want do do it?
    For shure if i will make this roleplay afther i will feel like a garbege, a shit, a fucking animal. To beat a woman who you want to ofer you love... trying to get love whit anger is so ugly.
    Olso i don't know what should i do afther, in movie and rape declaration the raper just disapear, get dress and go in his buisnis, but in this situation she is my girlfriend and i will need to do something afther will she is still around.
    I see Stalingrad (a german rape a russian woman), A woman in Berlin (russians rape womans).
    The guy who normaly look ok, change in to a monster at his face when he rape the woman.
    Olso for me i think it will be very dificul even in a rol play to stay hard and take "NO" like is a yes.
    I will need a lot of signs to show me that i'm on the right way and i don't crose the limit.

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  • uhh.. no. Not full rape rp. My boyfriend and I are both into a bit of d/s but taking it further into full-on rape rp is something neither of us are comfortable with.

    For myself, I wouldn't be into it because I've had a few situations in the past where a guy definitely overstepped sexual boundaries, despite my telling him no. I'm aware that rp isn't the real deal, has safewords and all that but I think even just roleplaying it would make me think of the times it happened for real. Which I don't find arousing in the slightest.

    • I hear you on that second part. Me and my lover do but we are very careful about how we do it because of my PTSD. Several flashbacks and constant overprotection of myself, fear of people's intentions, panic attacks, all of which I'm still dealing with to this day, I was diagnosed finally 7 months after I was molested, which was also 1 month after suffering my first rape. So we rarely do such rp, but when we do we are very careful about it. Safe words are placed above all priorities.

  • I don’t think so. There are some things I’m not into that I would try to please him but that sounds scary, even if it’s fake. The idea of being actually raped terrifies me and it’s not sexy or fun to pretend he’s doing that to me, but I might consider the role play if he agrees not to slap and choke me.

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  • I’d leave his ass. He’d be lucky that im not one to do the whole BS Of #MeToo -ing the shit out of him

    • In this context, the question was not if you would do it to you but if she specifically requested it from him

    • Yea and im saying if my dude was her, i’d do what i said above. If i was a guy and a female asked for a rape fantasy, i’d leave her crazy ass before it backfires and she MeToos me

    • Ahhh, gotcha. Thanks for explaining

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  • Try a "rape room" event instead. Basically it's a room at a party you go in and by doing so consent to having sex with whoever enters

    • Scared about STDs tho

  • Oh wow you sound like JAILBAIT if I ever heard of this.. wouldn't be fun for the next date to strangle you during rape and chop your body up and bury you in 15 different places? WOW SO MUCH FUN..

    you need therapy !

    • I don’t think you understand the question lol

  • I would. At least it is something that both want. But there need to be a codeword then so that it doesn't get too Bad for her (and she has the possibility to break up if she Sees that it is just not what she wants to do anymore)

    But yeah, I would be down for you, definitly!

  • A man can go to jail just for saying "Hello" to a girl. So no way would I agree to this. Even if I recorded a video of consent, text message, the act itself, and a video of her saying that she enjoyed it at the end. And saving it on multiple hard drives and cloud storage. Stay away from me.

  • Its definitely difficult to bring it up
    So many people would not understand the desire in that type of fantasy

    • I know :(((

    • People just judge, when they have no right! I'd love to discuss more, but others will see...

    • Care to talk about it?

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  • If I had a partner and they wanted me to, then maybe, as long there's a safe word and we discussed everything beforehand in terms of what we'd be comfortable with and if we found an agreement that would work for both of us, then probably.

  • Sure. We have safe words for when we do it so that consent is still respected.

  • We did it so many times me and the wife but she likes to role rape me more, i don't mind it either.

  • I would, and I have. Both my partner and I have a bit of a rape kink, so we've tried out CNC play several times. Definitely a massive turn on.

    • First time I’ve heard of “CNC” but seems a lot like what I want! Planning to do more research on it

    • Here's a good article talking about it, and lists some of the things you need to consider when approaching this type of activity: https://bound-together.net/cnc/

  • Maybe.

  • Maybe

  • It is OK with me. My wife and I play where I kidnap her and take her, tie her up and blindfold her after I "make" her slowly take her clothes off and "make" her do whatever I want

  • I'm not sure i'd be comfortable with it. The pleasure of sex for me is in my partner enjoying it, if she's crying and struggling it kinda kills the mood.

  • No it could backfire if she got mad at you or wanted payback

  • I am into it

  • Yes... With rules, boundaries and safe words

  • yea id do it if she wanted too and id set up a time so when im about to do it, i wouldn't ask, i would just do it, of course im not really gonna be raping her cause she already knew it was gonna happen within that time range and she agreed, i think it would give her a better experience with her kink i think 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • Haha I need someone like u in my life🤣

    • i guess you just need someone to understand a kink and be willing to help you with your desires, hope you find him tho missy 💯🙏🏽😊

  • The plain desire to be dominated sexually by most women on full unabashed display here.

    The NUMBER ONE complain from women is that their man is too weak in the bedroom. Fuck them well and hard and they'll keep coming back for more. Fail to do so and she'll go looking for a real man elsewhere. We've seen it over and over and over. He's fucking boring, she goes looking for Chad Thundercock. And then you hear the famous, "I love him but I'm not IN LOVE with him anymore." She wants Chad. :)

  • This is one of my favorites. I’ve done a lot of these and it was fun. The kink is called CNC

    • Thank you!!! Planning to do more research. Never knew the name for my kink haha

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