Be Honest ✋ Does Dirty DMs Turn You On?

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SarahNiemann · Accepted Answer

SURE! With a guy I’m seeing. Or perhaps being a bit flirty, or naughty with a guy friend, or even a guy I like, yeah! But with a stranger? Someone I’ve never met? No! The disconnection between intimacy, and romance on-line is crazy to me. Any girls reading this... if a guy you never met just walked up to you and said “you wanna have sex?” How turned on would you be... honestly! Not. “Hi, I’ve been noticing you all evening, and I though ‘if that girl is even half as interesting as she is beautiful, then she must be the most interesting person on campus/in the city/in the world’. And then I realized how big a mistake I’d be making if I just never talked to you, so hello. My name is john, what’s yours” I mean its not the greatest ice breaker, but it beats “wanna screw”! B/c thats what some guys do, they just DM with “hey, wanna sext”? Or “hey, hows things...” then regardless of what you say in return, the next line I’d “wanna sext”... So no, its not a turn-on.

ariadneR · Accepted Answer

If it's from him, he can talk dirty anytime any place I love it.
I have this friend now🙄🙄, who, everyday sends me the dirty convos her and her friends with benefits text each other, and tbh I am so repulsed. I dont care. I dont want to see it. I've told her as much, but she doesn't listen

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Ok, texts... Between known lovers, ok that's fine but random dm's... Out of the blue... There is one way this can work if it's consensual. Let's say two people are really in the mood and they just want to have fun, then maybe... But it has to not be random and it has has has has has has has has has has has has has has to be consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual consensual
consensual consensual
Have I made my point... Maybe not hold on
consensual, there. It's not one sided and it's not about fishing in hopes that it works. You ask first and see if they are interested then you DM

MementoMori_ · Accepted Answer

There is a big difference between girls and guys when it comes to sex.

Girls can get a guy for sex any time they want it, pretty much no guys can do that no matter how good they look.

So to girls, it's no big deal. If they want sex, they can easily find a guy to have it with. Guys have to work much harder and also are hornier far more often. The more rare something is the more valuable. To girls, guys who want sex are a dime a dozen. To guys they are worth their weight in gold and they have to move in before she changes her mind.

Teyfet · Answer

It depends upon the person & whether they have any writing skills or not. Personally, I've only ever slid in when I knew she was receptive beforehand. It can get pretty hot, when done correctly; but, admittedly, I'm pretty good at cybering. *coming up behind you, sweeping the hair from your neck, kissing you there as I hug you into me, whispering warmly into your ear* do you see what I mean? re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (0, 0, 0), justifyLeft, p

perfectchaos · Answer

Depends on from who but otherwise yeah I love dirty text.

jemismyname · Answer

uhhhh huh-huh, hey baby, you wanna do it? eh heh-heh heh heh, yeah! yeah! you wanna do it? uh huh-huh heh-heh heh-heh

LanceLa · Answer

Yea but usually only with people I know irl doesn't matter if I talked to them or not but ofc knowing the person u talking to has the body they saying they have is always good

GnarCute · Answer

depends on my mood, would i ever give people anything more than messages? no. its all dependent on how i feel in the day

BuckWild · Answer

Only if they're from the right person. You are always welcome to send me sexy nerd girl texts. If you're good maybe I'll send you a sexy text. ;)

SjE78 · Answer

yep but only from the right one tbf...

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Nah!!! We don't do that, we tease each other by calling and give some explicit hints, it our style.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Of course

Metlahaed · Answer

Not really to be honest.

Apope16 · Answer

All the time!

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Only if I’m into the person sexually or romantically or both. Otherwise it’s just gross and annoying.

nodnol32 · Answer

Dirty dms from the right person turn me on.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think if there is a couple who share a dirty talk that is different but to talk dirty to complete stranger is little sketchy for me

JosyJosy · Answer

Maybe... But then I get pissed if boyfriend isn't available at the time

KirstyW · Answer

I can categorically say that's never happened on here.

ultimega · Answer

It depends how articulate they are at constructing an errotic fantasy that tantalises my senses with a driven narrative.

In other words: spit some mad game and that coochie will flow like a waterfall.

funride74 · Answer

Yes of course! What could they be there fore otherwise

KatherineJ · Answer

Huge turnOFF

Naughty_Gentleman · Answer

Somewhere between vote A n B... I don't always like it but if they're from right person... It's welcomed 😈😁🤤

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