Is anyone really good at giving massages?

[Grond21]

I want to learn how

[CassaBlanca]

I'm still learning and getting better. He seems to love them! So I find that encouraging and I feel I'm reasonably good now. The sounds he makes when I have my fingers his hair! puts such a huge smile on my face.😁

If you're recieving one please be uninhibited with your appreciation and also if we're doing a terrible job. The last thing we want to do is hurt you and have you just take it because you dont want to hurt our feelings.

Where do you learn? I'm talking about a relaxing massage here. Internet searches have helped me a lot. I've consolidated moves over time. They show which directions muscle fibers flow in and then you can run you hands in that direction and vary the pressure.

A secret I learned? Don't ignore the glutes.

Have fun!

[Grond21]

Wow, he's a lucky guy! Having someone run their fingers through my hair is just amazing! That's a good tip. Basically if someone is doing it then you can train them through your appreciation. Just like you would want them to do with you. Unfortunately I don't have anyone to consistently practice with. I'm single right now. But I would just like to learn in general. But once I have that girl, I will make sure not to ignore the glutes! Thank you for the tip 😉

[CassaBlanca]

Hey! Thanks! I hope you find someone to practice with! Mens hands are really heavenly!

[Grond21]

Me too! Hopefully I can turn these from clumsy mitts into heavenly hands

[Secret6620]

I'm the BEST!!! Probably too good... I literally was giving massages to my sisters in bootcamp... We were in the middle of 9 mile March with 65 lbs of weight on our backs... Now think about that but picture a small girl who weighs 102 lbs soaking wet and she also has to carry 65lbs on her back too... So I took one for the team... I became the platoon massage therapist ahahahaha 😆🤦👏 They have GREAT tutorials on both YouTube and Instagram for tips and techniques!!! My first recommendation is a foam roller

[Grond21]

Wow!😍😍😍 Sounds like you are a master!

[Secret6620]

YAY 🙋 Thanks for most helpful girl 🦋

[Grond21]

You bet!

[Secret6620]

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[DizzyDesii]

No lol. Im too rough with it. I just rather kiss/lick and give hickeys haha. I normally dont like to receive massages either cause im too ticklish but i had one footballer best friend and ong he massaged me and i nearly collapsed 🤣 it felt so good and i wasn't ticklish. He was hot but i wasn't even into him like that. He def had the midas touch tho cause i turned to gold

[Grond21]

Haha, that is exactly what I want to be able to do! Turn someone into mush. And if you are really ticklish, I think that an oil massage with strong and firm movements really help

[goodlongman]

Mine would not be ticklish I have big strong hands under control

[DizzyDesii]

I def wanna try an oil massage. Its my fave kind porn to watch tbh

[Grond21]

I am surprised you haven't done it yet then

[DizzyDesii]

We used whip cream instead but that was more of a tit massage 🤣

[Grond21]

🤣🤣🤣 Yeah, that's veeery different

[Claireluvskaren]

No, nor is my husband, that's why we pay someone each week for a 90 minute treatment. Our LMT actually visits us at our home.

[Grond21]

That's smart. Regular massages are supposed to be super beneficial. Is it expensive?

[Claireluvskaren]

We pay $100 each for 90 minutes, plus tip. So $250 a week.

[Grond21]

Wooooow. That's not cheap

[FancyPantz]

Heyyy!

[Jjpayne]

I'd sure like one myself :)

But I'm not sure how or have any experience 😞

[SandandWaves]

I have always enjoyed giving massages. I have done massages for most my life. Never had complaints. I can give myself massages in most areas, but, always feels better from another person (right person)

[Grond21]

Good for you. That's awesome

[Aislin9]

I am, I took classes. I can't tell you how to massage but the basics are keep your wrists straight and use your body as pressure (not arms as you can't get enough pressure from your arms alone). A bed is too low in general for giving a long massage. On a back, you stay away from ribs and spine, always go lower back to upper back. The focus should be on the muscles on either side on the vertebrae. You can do lighter strokes on the low back by alternating thumbs, in a sort of fan motion. Never be too light to tickle. That can also be used on the traps as well.

Anyway, watch some videos. :D

[Grond21]

Thank you! That's really helpful for me!

[Aislin9]

Have fun, it's a nice gift for anyone.

[Grond21]

Thank you!

[Sevenpointfive]

it's not really that hard. if someone tells you where they need it it's even easier. my father taught us at a young age how to give them and back adjustments. i'm sure you could find some easy instructions online

[Grond21]

Thank you

[ultimega]

I am. Not a professional but when I was younger I taught my self how to do a few techniques through some aromatherapy books when my mother trouble with her knees and back.
My special trick is create enough heat with your hands so that the person feels it more effectively through the skin and loosens tension within the muscles.

[Grond21]

How do you do that? By rubbing your hands together first?

[goodlongman]

Where do you live i miss my massages

[Desconhecida]

LOL.
I am. But what kind of massage you're talking about?

[Grond21]

Haha, I certainly want to learn how to do a sensual one too! But I am am asking more in general here

[goodlongman]

Were do you live i miss my massages

[Desconhecida]

@grond21 There are many types of massages, not including "sensual ones". The benefits you are looking for determines what you need to know.

[Grond21]

Ahh, true. I was thinking a general muscle relaxer

[Desconhecida]

I know two of this kind: the relaxing massage (a technique that uses firm and smooth movements like sliding, and rubbing, which provide relaxation and relief from pains and strains). And the Shiatsu (an oriental massage technique, which uses the pressure of the fingertips and hands in order to promote relief and eliminate the tension of muscles)

[Grond21]

Can you teach me?

[Desconhecida]

Sure. There are books and videos who might help you as well.

[Grond21]

Thank you!

[Desconhecida]

You owe me 10 bucks. It wasn't a freebie this time 😂🤣

[Grond21]

🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌

[Desconhecida]

@grond21 Are those reindeers? You think you're santa and are paying your debts with pets in forced labor? by the way, you also owe me 20 for the pot too.

[Grond21]

Nope. They are male deer. Also known as bucks. 🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌🦌

[Desconhecida]

Have you ever heard of Bambi? 🛠🔨🪓⛏

[Grond21]

Yes. And what's with the tools?

[Desconhecida]

I was searching for a shotgun...

[Grond21]

Ahhh

[Desconhecida]

Have you ever heard of those hot stones massages or people walking on you? LOL

[Grond21]

Yeah, and they have got me curious. I wonder what that would be like?

[Desconhecida]

Dude, you need to go to some SPA 🕶😂

[Grond21]

I totally do!!

[COMMODOREII]

I can make a woman melt in my hands. And leave her wet and wanting more. 😛

[Nigjt]

Yes I've been told by many of my people that I am very good an that's what makes them keep coming back to me so if u still wanna learn or something else send me a friends request an a text an lets make some time to do so.
God Bless

[Grond21]

How would you go about teaching me?

[Nigjt]

Well u an I would set down face to face an have a talk about u would do in different situations an in various types because rather u do only Women or only Men or u do both that is really up to u. I my self do them both because money is just that to me money so in saying that to u we would have to have a face to face then the one hands training an the book's after because would have to learn how to introduce ur hands to the human body on ways that will not run ur customers off or make them uptight or nervous u will also need to be a very good listener their are many parts to becoming a good student and teacher. U can text me at. 619-552 -1881 my name is James. AKA - NIGJT. real AKA - NIGHT. God Bless

[Nigjt]

Please only text until I say u can call me Please an thank u. God Bless

[Grond21]

That sounds like a lot of great teaching. But what if we are not in the same area? And I will not message you beyond texting unless we agree to it.

[Nigjt]

Then with out u coming or paying for my way to u I will not beagle to teach u anything. God Bless

[Grond21]

Are you in the US?

[Nigjt]

Beable to teach u anything. God Bless

[Nigjt]

Yes I am. I'm in Texas. God Bless

[Grond21]

I guess it won't work then. I am 18 hours away from you. Thank you for offering though

[Nigjt]

Ok. God Bless

[Grond21]

You too

[Nigjt]

If u ever change ur mind keep that number an text me then until I say for u to call me because of my work schedule it's always changing that number should be could until I stop. P. s. I've been doing this for the better part of 40 pulse years. God Bless

[Grond21]

Thank you. Although I doubt I will ever have funds needed in the next 20 years

[In_Trance]

RMTs are

[eywee]

Well first of all... Having warm hands is a plus

[Grond21]

Good point