How do women avoid being called a whore/slut if they have a high sex drive?
Women are socially conditioned to not accept sexual advances from random guys, and guys are encouraged to accept sexual advances from random girls, so this plays a role in my life because it's difficult to express my desire to some guys I'm into.
Most girls say they don't like seeing random dick pics, but I actually get turned on by a lot of them especially if the guy shows me a hard on and there's a cute guy behind the screen. Most guys would think this way too, but about a girl who's naked. And I've met a few girls who actually enjoy seeing dick pics, but it's the "norm" that we don't, because we're supposed to not be like guys in this area, which is completely dumb in my opinion.
If a girl is so willing to have sex with a guy, she will probably not be taken very seriously after she has sex with him. The guy may feel like she's too easy or maybe she won't commit to him. And this is one of the reasons why I'm reluctant to really enjoy myself sexually, because some men refer to women like me as whores or sluts. Whores and sluts get paid and they do sex work. That's not the same as having sex with someone out of pure enjoyment, so that would be an incorrect and insulting label.
I feel like in this particular area, guys have it easier "in a way" (not always) because they're expected to want sex anyway, but they're also punished because people think of them as creeps if they make any sexual advances.
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