So confused but trying to be open minded?

Ariagames Xper 2

Hi i started chatting online with guys then i really started chatting to the one guy he's thoughtfull and evreything but he doesn't want to see me or call me he sais he really cares for me weve been talking seven months now so since the lockdown he's been distant but i was patient and not clingy at all he's married and im with someone we have lots of online sex but he changed evreything about us but i stil can't stop feeling for him he always said im his porn , that was the last thing he hasn't changed yet and now he asked me if i care if we watched porn together so now im confused because he sends me lots of money and really seems like he really cares he buys me stuff but why doesn't he want to see me and why ask my permission to watch porn with me 🤷‍♀️

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I should mention im a lot younger than he is im 35 he's 47

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AustinMan Influencer
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Sorry to say this but he's just messing with you. You deserve better. Dump him and go find a good guy that's available emotionally and relationally.
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- Ariagames
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  Thank you cerry much i needed that
- AustinMan
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  It's absolutely my pleasure. Feel free to follow and drop by to chat on DM anytime.
djmzes Guru
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Simple
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KitKnickKat Xper 7
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That doesn’t sound like a very good relationship, I think you would benefit the most by finding someone else that isn’t so confusing.
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Simple_Desperate_guy Xper 3
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he's married or something?
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- Ariagames
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  He is married and im in a relationship we know that about one another
- Simple_Desperate_guy
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  You said it yourself. By seeing you he would feel insecure I suppose. Why dont you ask this question to him yourself? would that make you insecure or uncomfy yourself m?
- Ariagames
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  I did ask him he said he doesn't know 🤣why insecure
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- Simple_Desperate_guy
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  You are his guilty pleasure ma'am thats all I can say 🤣🤣
- Ariagames
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  🤣🤣🤣i guess i am 🙈
JC103 Guru
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Looks like you have upswing a sugar daddy lol
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- Ariagames
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  Suggar daddy is no good if i can't have what i want
- JC103
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  What is it that you want?
- Ariagames
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  I just want to be a sub 🤷‍♀️
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- JC103
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  Have you told him?
- Ariagames
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  I have told him how i felt we have lots of online sex and we text a lot we dont call each other just texting videos and pics i so badly want to... him. i can't understand is there something wrong with me i mean im beatifull i take care if myself im way younger and i sometimes dont even chat for hours so im definatley not needy except to when it comes that i want him to meet me but after 8 months i dont think im needy if i said i want physical contact last night i told him im done then he said im full of shit and i said i know this morning he's still chatting as if were ok now lol what do you think hell do if he finds out i went out this morning 🤣🤣i so badly want to tell him
Iron_Man Master
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Move on
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- Ariagames
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  Wish it was so easy
AmeerX Guru
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What exactly is your question?
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- Ariagames
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  Why he doesn't want to see me
- AmeerX
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  May be he is married. He does send you money. Aren't you happy with that?
- Ariagames
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  He is married and im in a relationship weve been sexting online for about 7 months now we are great but i need contact i diddnt start chatting with him just because i want a chat yes he gives me a lot of money and talks to me evreyday no calls just text videos and pics im starting to think there's smething wrong with me 🤣
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- AmeerX
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  Wait, are you not cheating or is he? And you should try calling him or video call him. He wouldn't turn that off. Yeah, I think there is something wrong with you. He is giving you lot's of money because he loves you. Q
- Ariagames
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  Lol so someone loves you because they give you money but they dont want to see you hahaha how does that work? i heard a saying somewhere if a poor person gives you money they care for you but when a rich person gives you money they dont even feel it so why sould they care 🤷‍♀️i think on this stage exhanging videos is cheating too
- AmeerX
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  Is he really rich? And I think you should not feel like that. He wants you but may be he is just busy
- AmeerX
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  You are not gold digging are you?
- Ariagames
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  No im on the verge of leaving him because i need physical contact but i really do care for him so if by all means any advice on how to make him come meet me it would ve great he's a real softy and i know im going to break his heart if i leave him but phycal contact for me is important
- Ariagames
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  He is a verry busy man and i understand that but if i ask you if well ever meet after 7 months of chatting and you tell me you dont know evrething has changed so much then i move on
- AmeerX
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  Well it does indeed seem strange that in 7 months you two never saw each other on video call even. But then again long distance relationship is like that. I think you are letting a good man go if you move on. Tell him at least you need physical contact from him
- Ariagames
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  I did he's shy and not ready
- Ariagames
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  We can
- AmeerX
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  Okay
- AmeerX
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  May be at least tell him to call you or you call him. And these days he can just video message
Asadi Yoda
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See I think you should act smartly , keep in contact with him for money, and also find someone else to meet physically
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CubaPirate Master
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Weird AF IMFAO
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Anonymous
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Afraid he treating you like a Whore really has no respect for you
He only needs you when he needs to get off
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