My boyfriend is oblivious, is there a way to help him?
At first I felt sorry for him but soon I realised that most likely none of that had happened the way he described it. From seeing him interact with other women (before me and him were just friends), quite often he would creep them out and they would look genuinely scared and run off, telling him that they’ll be back in a minute. He’ll genuinely stay there and wait for her to return, saying stuff like ‘hey, that girl was really into me, I don't know why she disappeared’. Before me, he was seeing this married woman for a couple of months, he broke it off once she fell pregnant from her husband but he still maintains that she has never cheated before and this was the only time, and she only did it because she was obsessed and in love with him. He says that because she once told him so and she wouldn’t lie... I have seen the emails they sent to one another and the chick pretty much ignored him whilst implying that they were just fucking...
OK, and now as to how it affects me. Sometimes he misreads my emotions so badly that it brings me to tears. Multiple times he has initiated sex when I didn’t want to and wouldn’t stop until I’m crying because he thought that we were role playing. I remember there was this one time we were having dinner at home and I was reflecting back on my cat who recently passed away. I began tearing up and he approached me and tried to pull my pants down to have sex with me... in his defence he said something about me mentioning cats reminded him of this porn we watched with this girl wearing cat ears and then he got too caught up thinking about it.
He is so oblivious that it is sad. Is there anything I can do to help him?
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