Would you give up all your sexual fantasies for a relationship you think it's worth it?

[Anonymous]

Like damn my fantasies went dirtier and dirtier... I'm into everything, into ffm, mmf, fff, mmmf, mmmmf, mmmmmf. But I would only do ffm and mmf and maybe mmmf, but I like watching gang bang so I think I would like it but I wouldn't do it because its just too much haha. Anyway I'm not gonna be able to do mmf or anything like that , only ffm since I have a lover , and he is kinda possessive, but is it what I'm supposed to do , repress those sexual desires and stick with my man because I'm in love with him and dont wanna fuck it up? Yeah I guess so , but it sucks that I found the love of my life so fucking early , I met him when I was 21 and I haven't experienced enough sex , I slept with less than 15 and I have so many fantasies like fuck I wish i could change his mind, i dont want another lover , I just wanna duplicate the sexual pleasure , I wouldn't mind if he fucks another girl in a ffm threesome with me but since he doesn't want to include another man to do a mmf with me I tell him that i do mind but i really dont mind, what I actually mind is that he gets to fuck another girl and I dont , so I that's why I say I mind when I actually dont, I'm not jealous, I'm not possessive, I could invite any girl I like to bed and let him fuck her and I would eat his cum from her pussy , which is 1 of my biggest fantasies but I won't make it happen because that would mean he would fuck a girl and I dont want him to since I can't , if i can't , he can't. And that really limits all the sexual pleasure i want , should i settle down? Or maybe I could break up with him , experienced and then get back to him and risk to lose him , but I think he is the love of my life and I will never fall for anyone else , I think he is my type and I wanna live abroad with him and he agreed together to do that , he thinks I'm the love of his life. I believe that. He is really crazy about me like I'm with him. I always wanted to explore fantasies and dating girls, I'm not sure about giving all up

[abc3643]

No. No one should. This is deliberately putting yourself in a bad sexual chemistry situation and every relationship with bad sexual chemistry either ends or just otherwise sucks because the couple is miserable.

However, you need to get your shit together and grow up.
You are all over the place.

THIS:
"I slept with less than 15 "
is the wrong attitude to have.

So, you WANT to be a slut?

You can't be like this in your 40s.


That said, consider moving to Los Angeles.
Hollywood Boulevard has a place for people like you.
They're called street corners.
Get used to saying "Honey, do you date?"

[abc3643]

Despite what I said, talk to the guy... Things may just work out for you.

[abc3643]

Also, I am serious about moving to Los Angeles even if you aren't a hooker. The Hollywood Boulevard area is like Disneyland for a woman of your... "sexual zeal", I'll put it like that.

[Asker]

Well what i meant when I said I slept with less than 15 people is that I haven't met much people , I like meeting people, and now i started to like girls more and i haven't slept with a girl yet, and i wanna experience and I'm sorry if i want to experience with more than one. But anyway i may not do anything and just stay with my ex , i dont know how much its worth it , maybe I'll just live my fantasies in my head and watch porn to please it and that's it

[Asker]

I think you're a moron of insulting me and telling me that I'm a slut , o hate people who tag people like that

[Asker]

I really dont give a fuck about what you think , I read other comments of you in other posts , and you are used to label girls with the word slut directly or indirectly, I have no respect for you then fuck you

[abc3643]

You're not a slut... yet... But you are getting there. No one has a need to have more than 10 sexual intercourse partners in their life.

[abc3643]

Actually, hey, you may be a nymphomaniac. I had a roommate who was like that. Consider exploring that.

[Asker]

I never said I had a need , I was just trying to make a point , you dont get it you're just to busy judging

[Asker]

Okay I'll report you

[abc3643]

* sigh * We have gotten off on the wrong foot and that's my fault. I can understand you wild sexual desires. There's nothing wrong with that. And, if you can find like-minded people who make sex a major priority in life, then go for it. ... but don't expect to have a normal relationship with a normal guy. Normal guys do not want women with a lot of experience like what you are aiming for. This is because every guy views things sort of like a competition... and every guy you have sex with is, in his mind, competing with all the previous guys that you've had. The more you've had, the less special he will feel. He won't get the sense that you will stick around and be loyal or that he will "measure up" compared to your past studs.

[boggboss]

You have to decide what u want more to fully express your sexual fantasys or this relationship as you clearly can't have both

[Asker]

What would you do

[boggboss]

I would work out what I wanted out of life atm as there is no point settling down if u are not ready as all u do will be wasting both people's time

[boggboss]

For me when I got with my girl I fully accepted she would be the last girl I ever had sex with

[Dargil]

Even my fantasies are French Vanilla at most. I don't expect to experience them.

[bubbakong2006]

You will still want it cause it's what you really want

[tytytytytyty252525]

No, you are going to suffer on the long term. Or cheat lol

[loveslongnails]

I wouldn't give them all up for a totally straight girl, no way.

[COMMODOREII]

I can see those hormones playing with your mind. 😂

[Juxtapose]

Find an equally chill dude who is as dirty as you.

[Paul09]

Isn't that like giving up a part of you? I mean if you can deal without all the stuff, go for it. I'd be disappointed if my next girlfriend would not be very sexual.

[JamesBlackDragon]

I've done all of mine except one which I don't think is possible so yes

[abc--123]

I am in a realtionship where I've given up every sexual fantasy and it massive sucks

[CubaPirate]

The short answer is no