Is it possible to tell if a girl is virgin or not?

Hey there! Lately I discussed this question with my friends and they said that it’s visible and my best friend also mentioned that it’s really obvious when talking to me (although I didn’t ask her to comment on my life). I’m 24 years old and yes, I’m virgin. I can’t say I’m religious person it’s just that it’s my personal choice to look for a guy who I’ll be confident about in the relationship which would last at least more than a month. I never wanted relationships just to have sex. I find it wrong for myself, so that’s why I’m still virgin. And also I never really had time for boys before. I was too focused in my bachelors and then masters degree, I also went for exchange programs twice and got my masters outside my country. I was also really involved in the university activities, writing articles, doing sports, traveling, participating in business case competitions and i was an A student during my studies. Guys told me that I’m cute and beautiful, some called me sexy. So it’s just my personal choice and I don’t understand why some people find my choice wrong. Like gynecologists, the last guy I was dating (he said that we have to stay friends after he found out) and even my best friend pointed at it and laughed... So I would be really grateful if someone would explain me whether being a virgin is something to be ashamed of and judged for and also whether you can tell my the person appearance and through talk whether a person never had sex before?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • nothing to be ashamed of, you are going to fetch a very high quality man one day if you can manage to keep making good decisions like you have so far. If a guy doesn't wanna date you cause your a virgin, he either just wanted you for sex (and girls who've already had it give it up way easier) OR he was planning on using you for sex and realized oh shit, this girl is still intact, I'd better not ruin her for her soulmate.

  • You can't know for sure. Most virgin girls have an intact hymen. Therefore she blends when it breaks during sex. Yet not all do. Overall there's no way to know for sure if a person is a virgin. As for your age, my girlfriend was 33 before she lost her's, so there's no reason to feel bad or uncomfortable about being one. Some guys don't like it because some virgins get pretty attached to their first.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's nothing to be ashamed about. What you do with your body is your choice, it's no one else's business. But no you can't tell from appearance, maybe through the way you talk about it but everyone is different so not really.

  • I feel like I could have written this myself, except I’m 26 now. There’s nothing wrong with it and, frankly, any guy who’s worth your time won’t see it as a problem.

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  • If her tampers

    • If her tamper seal is intact, she is a virgin. If it is missing or tampered with, she is no virgin.

  • I'm older than you, and I'm virgin too, and am happy and proudful on being Virgin

    • I respect more to virgins, cause they are more respectable persons in my views.

  • Talking to someone can be possible to think they might be. But physically no way...

  • Probably but i just want to smash

  • Only when you ask her

  • The only way to tell is to look between her legs LOL

  • nope. she might be a little less uptight but, no there's no definitive way

  • Yeah do the two finger test.

  • Be proud... hard to find these days.

  • No its no obvious in any way. They say because they now or assume because they now you. Nothing to be ashamed of.