Dear Men, do you agree that women have a lot to offer in a marriage or a relationship other than just sex?

[Apope16]

[hellionthesagereborn]

I voted no, but the reason isn't because they don't have more to offer, its that most refuse to offer it. When women are nurturing and caring and loving they are great, they can put you at ease, make you feel emotionally secure, give you drive to better yourself and help you when you need it even if its only just cooking something for you or cleaning or just cuddling. In this regard yes they can offer a lot.

The problem is, most women don't. Most women don't offer anything because most men are so desperate they will allow themselves to be treated as a lesser and will accept the bare minimum from women and women, having become accustomed to being put on a pedestal and pampered their entire life, are not really interested in altering that arrangement (if you make the same amount of money whether or not you try, why would you ever try? Same goes for relationships, she gets the same thing out of it whether or not she puts in effort because men are kind of pathetic in this day and age and have very little self respect. So its only natural they put in as much effort as required (and a society that pampers them and blows smoke up their ass for every little thing you do (oh you managed to pop out a baby? Your so brave and strong!(why don't they ever say that for men, they raise kids too and work longer ours to provide for those kids yet strangely they are only told they are lazy and need to do more.), is not helping the situation.).

[elisa_0]

I also think women don’t need to do much because their looks should be enough, so they don’t try harder

[elisa_0]

They^ also think

[hellionthesagereborn]

@elisa_0 That is true and its a shame, like I said their are many things that women have that men cannot get anywhere else but most women just do not care enough to provide them (and I think this actually hurts men a lot (women are our source of intimacy and emotional security, we don't need them to buy us things (though every once in awhile is nice), we don't need them to protect us but life does is harsh for men and women do provide that nurturing support that we don't get anywhere else.).

[PrudentGuy]

@elisa_0 "Blonds have brains, they just don't need to use them." - Sex and the City. In prjnciple, its so true today. Both men and women exploited whatever, be it looks, inherited wealth, ... , and... should I say, "abuse" it with their partner.

[Anonymous]

There are way to many virgins on this site to get an accurate response man.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

You should have posted your question as a poll that can only be answered by guys.

[Apope16]

I am curious about the statistical difference between what guys think and what women think. That is often pretty telling.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

You question is flawed in the sense of the comments by Helion, because he voted no and explained the third option - that most women seem to offer the least amount possible based on their level of looks. I agree and was going to respond similarly, but he already made the point. And I voted yes, just because I had to choose between both being only half right.

[JackSmy]

If I was to marry, the LAST REASON, I would, is SEX!! I need to know her, and love who she is, and we need to share things, and enhance each other's lives by being together!!
Only fools marry for sex or physical attraction only!!

[I-am-a-nobody]

My wife means so much more than sex,...
she listens to my problems and my dreams, takes care of our home, teaches our sons, gives me wise counsel, cooks, cleans, does the laundry, comforts me, gives me her beautiful smile in the morning.

If I had to pick between all that and just plain old sex...
I'd still take the sex, but it would be really close honest. (ha ha)
It's a good thing I get both.

[EmbraceThePain]

I have a better question, “Men, would you get into a relationship or marriage with a woman if she would never have sex with you nor provide any other sexual acts for you?”

I personally think more women would be open to this type of relationship, whereas more men would be opposed to this type of relationship.

[ecfresh]

Absolutely. But why put this question in the sexuality category?

[loooooop]

Only very few women

[ItsTheNephilim]

Of course.

[humanearth]

I may dress funny and play the fool a lot. But without my wife, i would either be homeless or dead and maybe some degree on her part.

You just have almost 30 years together as a booty call. We like to say"We saved each other"

I know this is a corny thing to say. But this woman is part of me, as I am to her.

You ever want a fight on your hands. Just try and pull us apart. Because you just been invited to your own funual

Thats how much more to our marriage is over sex. Sex don't keep us together. Love does.

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah... they have emotions, they can hopefully drive and likely know you better than yourself in the end

[Browneye57]

Yes, of course. But it doesn't replace sex. Too many thinks it does, when in reality is a violation of trust, a breakdown of commitment and trust, and a breaking of the marriage vows.
Good sex can smooth over an awful lot of bad things between couples.

[Redstang88]

Not all of them

[elisa_0]

It really depends on the woman rather than the entire gender of women. Some women have literally nothing to offer except sex 😂 others can change a man’s life just by being herself.

[genericname85]

duh! XD nobody is one-dimensional. no man and no woman.

[Grond21]

Absolutely. Anyone who thinks otherwise is not looking for a real relationship. The emotional intimacy aspect alone is essential and so significant in a marriage

[Nalix]

Many women don't offer more than sex, but they should. Sex robots will level that playing field.

[DiegoO]

They are human beings, sure they have much more to offer. In a healthy relationship sex is not a mechanic act.

[TonyMetal___86]

Ofc she does...

[clampfan101]

Just as much as men.

[Trooper205]

Yes! So much more!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, but only if she's a good born again Christian woman. Heathens whether men or women are waste of time dealing with.