Guys, is it more of a turn on if a girl masturbates in front of you with her hands or a toy?

Masturbating in front of a partner is something I want to try in the future but I’m not sure I would enjoy it much if I used a toy. The artificiality turns me off and I feel like sex acts and masturbation are much more raw and carnal using your bare hands.
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A lot of you don’t seem to understand the question. I’m not asking if you like it when a girl masturbates in front of you, I’m asking if you like it more when she masturbates in front of you using a toy, or if you like it more when she uses her hand. Basically, I’m asking if a toy or her hand is hotter to watch.
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  • It isn't really important how she does it. The turn on ois being allowed to participate- or at least view very close to the most enchanting thing in the world. A woman's orgasm. It's both a turn on- hugely so with a bit of vulnerability thrown in. I think it's one of the sexiest things their is. If you want to use r a $2500 chai or a $25 vide, or just sliding you finger along and over your clit. It's the moment when you see/hear/smell the sounds or visualiize an attractive woman masturbating, it's a huge turn on

  • Hands, definitely. A guy doesn’t get turned on seeing a piece of plastic going in and out. The whole point of a girl masturbating in front of her partner is to entice him to join her, right? So using your hands says “I could use some help”, while a toy doesn’t really give the same message

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  • In all honesty I had rather watch a woman masturbate with her hand. Reason being a toy is just an object. A woman hand is a part of her. Also by a woman using her hand in masturbation. She knows how 2 work it right. Then she will squirt during masturbation.

  • Not a guy, but I’m always a fan of toys

  • Hands. Definitely.

  • What feels right to you is the way to go. Later on if you feel as you get sexually mature you can incorporate sex toys into your repertoire as you become curious or comfortable. The fact that you are sharing your sacred self with someone us special and is the be treated as such.

  • Just her hands, and how she really feels when she is enjoying her time alone! No BS, no made-up crap, just what she loves, alone, for herself!! Natural, all the time! Not fake crap, or toys, or re-enacting porn scenes!!

  • Absolutely with her hand. My girlfriend done it both, and I get way hornier realizing she's making herself wet with only her hand rather than using a toy.

  • all hands on deck. work it for me. love that.

  • I'd like hands more :)

  • I love it

    • Read the update.

    • Ahhhh... i prefer her with her fingers.

  • I mean if a girl I like sexual. starts to masturbate by herself nearby me. there is a good chance I'll offer to help her or just join in the fun. and see where things lead from there.

  • Few things on earth even come close.

    • Read the update.

  • I’d prefer hands but I know it depends on the guy. Agree on artificiality.

  • With her hands it is more of a turn on because it is natural beauty.

  • Hands!!!

  • Hands. I preder natural methods.

  • Yes, it's a turn on to see a girl masturbate and use her fingers

    • Masturbate using her hand is turn on for me

  • both is very hot but suggest you go with what you like - will make it hotter for him the more comfortable you are

  • I prefer whit the hands

  • Hand

  • Must be something you saw in a porn vid. You're disassociation from reality is astounding.

    • I don’t watch porn and the other guys who answered say they would really enjoy it if a girl masturbated in front of them, so I’m actually on to something.

    • Uh, actually, you're clueless. But that's besides the point.

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