Sex and Religion?
I’m also pretty into this guy. Though there’s been other guys I’ve gone out with, he’s my first boyfriend. He’s not pushy but the conversation has come up multiple times and he wants to move further (sexually) eventually, and, right now, I don’t know if I can give him what he wants which sucks considering what he wants is also what I want. I just don’t want to deviate from my religion.
Also, my family is religious, as well. I’m unsure of how I would even go about getting birth control without using my parents’ insurance, as they would be extremely upset at even the mention of premarital sex. I’m definitely being pulled in many directions when it comes to this and I hate always feeling like I’m trying to please everyone else, but at this point, I feel like I lose either way and just don’t know what to do.
This is really difficult for me which is another reason why I’ve put off relationships for so long. I genuinely care about this guy and I really don’t wanna get dumped over this. It’s been quite a while since I’ve turned to this site for advice but desperate times, right? I welcome any advice. Thanks.
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