This girl wanted to have sex with me but I'm not a lesbian. Now I can't stop thinking about her?

She tried to kiss me but I pushed her away
Now I can't stop thinking about having sex with her but I'm not a lesbian, what should I do?
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  • Sounds like you’re very open minded. At your age sexual exploration is nature. I think you should stop thinking about what others and what society thinks and simply enjoy a sexual experience without expectations and what other will think. Men love women because women are soft sensual both physically and as lovers. So it’s no wonder why other women are so drawn to them sexually. If you have any other question feel free to pm me.

  • You don't know what to do and you're now an adult? You get rid of her that's what you do. That just goes to confirm that it's all a spirit. Rebuke that Spirit and stay away from her. The next time she tries to do whatever have her reported for harrassment.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You can't get rid of unwanted ideas by actually trying to kill he idea.

    You have to totally drown-out the unwanted idea with other other, welcome thoughts. For example, focus totally & absolutely on the task at hand.
    Or completely submerge yourself in some really catchy music, completely filling your heart & mind with the lyrics, rhythm, beat, etc.

  • Stop worrying.
    I used to worry a lot too about those things, but in the end is all very simple.
    She wants to have sex with you.
    You want to have sex with her.
    Do the math.

    • Should I stop worrying?

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  • Sounds to me like you're likely bi. No biggie.

  • Have a conversation with her, tell her your thoughts and concerns etc. Kissing another woman won't make you a lesbian, nothing wrong with curiosity as it allows us to discover who we are.

    We don't always get to choose, it happens!

    There is no hellfire and brimstone 🙂

  • :: eyeroll:: geeeezzzeees... go for it doughnut bumper!

  • Try giving her a chance, it sounds like you're curious about it. I thought I was a lesbian at first but then I realized that I like boys too. Maybe it'll be similar for you.

  • "I'm not a lesbian". Whatever, you don't need a label. Why not have sex with her? It's very low risk and could be great.

  • You probably are not attracted to her but have never been aplroached in that manner by a girl which is why its playing on your mind. And maybe you kind of feel bad about pushing her away.

  • If you can't stop thinking about her, she obviously hit your curiosity
    Why don't you give it a try and next time kiss her
    I'd say you are definitely curious

  • you must be bicurious now

  • Being attracted to another woman doesn't mean you are a lesbian, you could have an isolated sexual attraction to this one girl. You may find out you are a lesbian and/or bi-. or you may have a memorable summer with a gay lover. Good lucjkin whichever you choose,. Again, my problems aren't so much with what I have done, they are more the result of things never done that I didn't think I had the courage to do.

  • You already know where you stand, you just got to speak to yourself and stop worrying


  • If u r straight but also have a lesbian fantasy, then u r bisexual.

  • Probably got you hot for it because you feel like you must be super attractive to attract a woman that way. Nothing lesbian about it just knowing you have to be hot to attract a woman.

  • I was the same way before, thats how it started for me, how long ago was this attempted kiss?

    • Two days ago. She didn't angry tho and told me to call her if I need anything

    • can you message me?

    • Please don't take it badly but I'm not sure about private messaging because people here know I was following a guy too

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  • If you are still thinking about it , at back of your mind, you are tempted to follow on...

  • Its ok to feel appreciated or wanted. Just be flattered and move on. 😉😎

  • Bisexual awakening moment.

  • you should try it, you might like it

  • Do it. You may be lesbian after all

  • Try it and see if you like it... you might.

  • i would of let her kiss you at least for the experience

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