Why are men so bad?

Why are men so bad at sex? Don't you men know the difference between a real moan and a fake one? Straight women usually almost never orgasm in their lives, why can you get yours but not ours?
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  • I do not belong to your rant equation. I will concur from all the women i have dated have said the same thing from past "lovers" lol. Most guys are so selfish and over confident in thinking pumping their way through is pleasing to women when it is far from anything how a woman needs to be pleasured.
    A woman is so sensuous and passionate that they need to be caressed and warmed up with passionate love making and when she is being taken care of is when she opens up lie a blooming flower ready to be pollinated. Reading a woman is what should be taught but I like being rare to know when to get raw.
    the tongue is the magical wand that needs to tease and tempt. The man's addition is the driver for the long smooth ride to ecstasy.
    I know there is no denying that pleasurable exhaustion from the women I have and am with.
    I think the greatest compliment I have received was a lesbian telling me nobody has ever ate her flower better.

    Sorry lol forgot about the question. Most guys are just so confused about a woman's needs that they are only thinking about getting off. They somehow relate fast and hard would be what a woman want's because that is all they need to get off. It's just stupidly selfish of them to forget that a woman is a sexually passionate wild kitten that has the ability to turn into a lioness if brought to that level.

  • "Why are men so bad at sex?"
    *Because men do not need to be good at it in order to conceive offspring. Orgasm in men is central to procreation. It is not necessary for women and is an artifact of sexual differentiation. Women do not even need to like sex to make babies.
    "Straight women usually almost never orgasm in their lives, why can you get yours but not ours?"
    *The fact is that fewer than 25% of women ever have an orgasm from intercourse alone. My theory is that the reason for this is the placement of the clitoris, usually not contacted during intercourse.
    "Don't you men know the difference between a real moan and a fake one?"
    *I don't care one way or the other. If I give her an orgasm, I detect it in other ways. it is unmistakable."
    "Updates: Lesbian women orgasm 90 percent of the time with their partner."
    *It is because you deliver orgasms as I do... by hand, mouth (or better) a combination of both. I make love to my partner this way. Sorry. Won't last long.

    Why are men so bad?

    I claim 80% success overall and 90+ with my partner.

Most Helpful Girl

  • probably because sex education never include women's orgasm

    • and in fact i never really had any orgasm until I had sex with the third girl. Probbaly because the first two were inexperienced

    • That makes sense. I am thankful to have had a good teacher

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  • I don't know where you got that straight women don't orgasm but you're dead wrong. Some of us work hard to make sure that happens first.

  • Nice one.
    Mostly man doesn't believe on foreplay and lesbian's have more of the time on the foreplay.
    The woman reaches orgasm if you focus or arouse her like doing more oral sex and many man go for sex just after a kiss.
    Lesbian's have feeling to get more of it and listen to the vibes of the partner's body they spent more time on the remaining part of the body and at last they reach to the pussy.
    Man reaches to pussy quite quicker as their dick can't hold long and they settle down even if the woman doesn't reach to their orgasm.

  • Wow, the penis envy is real...

    • There's no penis envy I love ms kitty

  • See, I ask this for female partners... I'm the guy who has painful, numb sex, and can't orgasm from it, and by the time I can, she is sore.

    This is why I think sex is best kept to being later in the relationship: people grow together more, have deeper understanding and respect. To flatly say all men are bad at sex is a generalization, and causes me to infer that you have had few partners, and a furtive sexual experience.

    For me, I hold off sex for as long as realistically possible, focusing on the person and learning about them. If it's a worthwhile relationship, it can last a lifetime.

  • Because women are bad at sex and don't put forth the effort. You wait their and expect him to do everything, expect him to do foreplay, go down on you, then last a couple of hours so you can get yours all while you just. . . exist. Then on top of that you either don't communicate or as you mentioned, lie, thus giving him false feedback so now he thinks he is doing something right when he isn't because you told him he was doing it right and now are here on the internet bitching and whining why the man doesn't know what he is doing because you told him to do the exact opposite of what you actually wanted him to do.

    • I second that

  • Oh good, I checked the age and it's not my wife. (ha ha)

    Well, I know a straight woman, who... ahem... "has a lot of fun"... almost every time.
    Just because you were unsatisfied, doesn't mean other women have the same experience.

  • How am I supposed to learn?

  • Why manipulate people? Just tell them so you don't/won't have to pretend.. maybe teach them, you do understand they are not omniscient right?

    • ... ok

  • Step 1: Deceive the guy through fake-moans and avoiding to tell him so he thinks he is doing a good job.
    Step 2: Complain about the guy being bad at sex and not improving.
    Step 3: -
    Step 4: Profit !

  • Because you girl don't want to have sex as much as man.
    I never hear about girl to reap guy and suck them till they pass out.
    We need to search, to flirt, to invite to coffe, to lose time till you girl ar confortable soooo some guys have just 2-3 girl before mariage.
    If you ask a guy alone, if he want his cock to be sucked he will never schream and ask for help. If a girl ask for our number we don't whait and see if she have a good personality, we gona just give the number and date next day.
    Girl can have as many guy they want, boys don't.
    If a girl call a guy for sex like "hey dud, i want you to fuck me" in a couple of minutes we are there. But a girl will think is a criminal.
    Girl need to be more open and let guys to have as much sex they want so we can learn properly.

  • well i have an excuse cause i never had sex but im sure since i can use my mouth forever, she outta reach that orgasm eventually

  • No idea. Never had sex and don't plan to do so anywhere in the foreseeable future.
    I'm guessing it cause most people aren't given a proper sex education and don't know about that stuff.

  • Onky selfish guys dont make women cum! Its relitively easy but selfish guys are only about themselves

  • Female body isn't evolved to be able to orgasm.

  • Sex is a skill like anything else, takes proper education and experience. A can do attitude never hurts as well.

  • We don't have to be good at sex.
    We're in it for ourselves. If you want performance art ask for it up front. :)

  • Because cumming from a girl does not beget a baby.

  • As long as there is dick there is always one black girl to suck it around.

  • I feel as though men are way overconfident with their skills in the bedroom and/or only stick to certain shall I say techniques. I think more men should communicate with their female partners to find out what they like since each woman is different. I also think variety helps. Doing the same thing over and over just gets old. If all else fails put your ego on hold and use a toy to help her. Nothing wrong with using a vibrator or clit sucking toy as long as she orgasms. I'll do whatever it takes to make my girlfriend cum and I usually like her to cum first. It makes me feel good.

  • Lol you been sleeping with the wrong guys 🤣🤣🤣

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