As long as one of you feels unready, then no.
Waiting builds endueance and character.
On top of that, waiting allows you to know each other better and gain a lot of intimacy outside the bedroom, which is great for future commitment, should you be together long term.
Finally waiting with sex in view (like set a date at Valentine 2021) allows you to plan and prepare for it. This will make your first time together very romantic and meaningful.0 0 0 0You nailed it, couldn't agree more
@RandomSurge my SO and i waited 9 months and planned our First Time (losing virginity to each other) to be in our favorite beach resort. We saved up, get prepared and despite a painful first for her, we fucked 7 times that day. Its worth the planning and wait.
If sex is your main priority you should end the relationship and find an easier girl because it's scummy to date a girl just for sex, unless she's fully aware and okay with it
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Yeah her choice sounds pretty mature, even with safe sex there is still a risk of pregnancy and if you guys aren't ready for it, it's still not the right time to have sex. Wait it out, waiting a year or two is nothing
0 0 0 0tbh i think you guys better dig into researching the safe sex thing, you might wanna know how to use condoms properly or go on the pills
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2 9Risk of pregnancy? Use protection smh..
0 0 0 0Well with birth control why not
0 0 0 0Yes. I think it’s smart to wait, and that it would feel more special.
0 0 0 0Up to you. 16 is young for you to be dating
0 0 0 0How long does she want to wait? I will wait up to 2 years for a girl to have sex?
0 0 0 0She has valid points that can't be ignored
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0 0 0 0You're going to have to
0 0 0 0Absolutely. You're both still very young, and you shouldn't just dump a girl because sex isn't coming sooner
0 0 0 0Wait until you are married; it is for the best. As the saying goes "Sex can wait, masterbate."
0 0 0 0Yes, if she wants to wait to have sex you should respect her wishes. You guys are young, waiting might seem like a while but it’s worth it for a life time decision.
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