Girlfriend wants to wait for sex?

My girlfriend of three months has told me that she wants to wait before having sex, mostly due to risk of pregnancy since I am 18 and she is almost 17 and still lives with her parents. Should I wait?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As long as one of you feels unready, then no.

    Waiting builds endueance and character.

    On top of that, waiting allows you to know each other better and gain a lot of intimacy outside the bedroom, which is great for future commitment, should you be together long term.

    Finally waiting with sex in view (like set a date at Valentine 2021) allows you to plan and prepare for it. This will make your first time together very romantic and meaningful.

    • You nailed it, couldn't agree more

    • @RandomSurge my SO and i waited 9 months and planned our First Time (losing virginity to each other) to be in our favorite beach resort. We saved up, get prepared and despite a painful first for her, we fucked 7 times that day. Its worth the planning and wait.

  • If sex is your main priority you should end the relationship and find an easier girl because it's scummy to date a girl just for sex, unless she's fully aware and okay with it

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah her choice sounds pretty mature, even with safe sex there is still a risk of pregnancy and if you guys aren't ready for it, it's still not the right time to have sex. Wait it out, waiting a year or two is nothing

  • tbh i think you guys better dig into researching the safe sex thing, you might wanna know how to use condoms properly or go on the pills

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Risk of pregnancy? Use protection smh..

  • Well with birth control why not

  • Yes. I think it’s smart to wait, and that it would feel more special.

  • Up to you. 16 is young for you to be dating

  • How long does she want to wait? I will wait up to 2 years for a girl to have sex?

  • She has valid points that can't be ignored

  • Wait

  • You're going to have to

  • Absolutely. You're both still very young, and you shouldn't just dump a girl because sex isn't coming sooner

  • Wait until you are married; it is for the best. As the saying goes "Sex can wait, masterbate."

  • Yes, if she wants to wait to have sex you should respect her wishes. You guys are young, waiting might seem like a while but it’s worth it for a life time decision.