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Guy is into oral stuff like an oral fix, is that a good/bad thing?

This guy I’m seeing loves kissing with heaps of tongue etc and one of his fettishes is oral stuff, like an oral fixation with doing oral things with a girl etc, and I’m just wondering if this is a good/bad thing.
Im ok with giving him oral but I don’t know if it’s going to be a massive deal to him if I don’t love it... he says he doesn’t mind and it’s fine if I don’t want to but I think he needs it... any thoughts?
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  • Dont get your point, is oral being the issue or your partner is not focussing on sex is that the issue..
    Sex is like more on the excitement end, but if oral is happening well then why is he not completing it.
    May be he is more found of BJ.
    Tell him you likes too as he conveyed his.

    • Yes he likes BJ’s a lot and more oral things so I was just wondering if that was good or bad I guess

    • There is nothing bad.. that's specific to people liking.. may be that gives him more excite in anything else...

  • I'm confused if you mean you don't like receiving it or giving it and if he likes receiving it or giving it. I think you just need to work out whatever kind of compromise works for both of you.

    • Umm I’m not entirely confident giving it but he loves doing it I think, or at least he wants to do it to me... I just wasn’t sure if having a fixation for it was good or not, like you said it’s just compromising I guess

    • (And he loves receiving it haha)

    • I see why I think a fixation on giving pleasure can only be a good thing... overall I think you two can work it out. Good luck!

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  • Do you mean he likes cunnilingus? Lucky you.

    • Yep I guess so, but loves getting head- that’s what he’s more fixated with I think

    • If he gives and receives equally, you have a good deal.

    • I hope so, thanks for answering

  • I like how you are considerate towards him do as he says.

  • I'm into only giving it. Not receiving it. I think it's fine.

  • I think an oral fixation is what the guy likes to do not what he likes to receive. An oral kink may be more to preferring to receive oral stimulation.

  • Most of the men love it

  • Giving or receiving

  • Hii
    How r u

  • First off... just enjoy it. If he isn't very good then guide him. Tell him what you want. And also make sure to stay as well groomed as you can. And dont forget to shave around your asshole too. Then surprise him that night by laying down on your back pulling your legs to your chest by grabbing at the knees. Then tell him to wedge a little pillow under the small of your back. If he doesn't go to it on his own tell him you want him to... your welcome in advance ;)

  • Usually good if you are into it like receiving it as long as he is ok not getting as much as giving, I usually like getting it more

  • Don't over think it, just tell him how you feel and/or what you like. Everyone is different and this isn't "good" or "bad", it's just what he likes.

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