Long-distance friends with benefits relationship?

Hi!
I’m having a friends with benefits relationship with this guy whom I met during his studies abroad. Long story short: We’re having a good sex life, get really well along and I miss him now that he’s gone. I proposed kind of a long-distance friends with benefits relationship but he has his doubts that it’s going to work due to the distance between us.

I know that we can’t continue as friends because there’s too much sexual tension. We’re no longer at the same university, so there are no more accidental meetings on campus. And we can’t be dating each other because - even though he told me that he’d like to be more than just a sex friend - I don’t feel a spark, although he’s my type and I like him as a person. So, the only option would be to cut off contact...

What do you think about this while situation? Thank you very much I’m advance!
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  • Reading your Details, my immediate feeling is "this girls knows sex".

    Ya, you already have the answer you wanted. And I deduce you ask because you feel that you need justification for your next course of action.

    But I assure you, lady, you don't need approval from anyone, neither do you need to be justified.

    Just do what you feel best. Even a break up then make up after a year is OK, as long is is a decision between the two of you.

    Have a great life and stay healthy! Cheers and be happy!

  • Nicely presented.
    So, you are attracted to the just because of sex thing and nothing else.
    Why don't you find someone else may be you friend might pursue to something else and you be stuck and waiting for him. It's better to move on and keep him as a good friends.
    Some memories are great to be so and we can't make it for the life time.
    So, better find someone else and keep him as your beautiful memory

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  • Since you won’t see him for sex It’s not worth hanging on to him.