Do you like being pushed up against a wall while you're making out?

Question

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Love it. Not enough guys do it.

Why do I like it?
Because it means he is taken over by his desire for you and nothing else matters more in that moment. It is about just the two of you, your connection, your relationship, your experience of life, or that moment, together.
It's not about domination (for me.) We're in it together. But it does have an inherent take charge, 'honey badger don't care' attitude about it. And that is why it's hot. And why the phrase/concept 'bad boy' comes up over and over and over. If you are the object of what a person wants, you are inside his inner circle. He wants you as an object of desire, and for the person that you are, because he chose you. He must be selective, discerning, or it means nothing. Because independence means more to him than rules. He values his independence above many things. So the value of being inside his inner circle is much higher. He is an independent-minded person. He shirks rules and societal pressures, 'norms' for what he believes in. There is your basic criminal 'bad' , as in robbing a convenience store (that's truly bad, and stupid.) But then there's bad, as in let's go out of bounds, where we're 'not supposed to', do what we want, 'break the fifth wall', which we know will not hurt anyone, yet technically speaking it is against some 'rule', predetermined by government, or others, not by us. We reject the rule. And, ok, going against it will be damn fun too.

Another way to look at a wall, is it is, quite literally, pushing up against the boundaries of a space. It dances on the line of confinement. Attraction can be primal, base. The wall is something to push up against, which adds pressure, pressure points, the physical sensation of being supported, while also resistance. All of this adds to the physical sensation you are experiencing with the other person.

My preferred wall is:
In public, yet somewhat secluded, but with a definite possibility of being interrupted.
Dark, shadowy, preferably at night, where the best debauchery happens.
It happens spontaneously.
The guy puts my arms up, over our heads, and leans in, hard. And the wall is not the only thing that's hard.

Desconhecida · Accepted Answer

I think most women like it when things get a little rough.

Porcelaine · Answer

Sure. Just not too hard. Do you enjoy if a girl does that to you?

MissRomantic · Answer

Yes, it’s hot when my boyfriend did this with me. It shows me that he’s into it and it’s hot when he takes the lead.

CreativeMumble · Answer

Holy ducking yes.

1Sophisticatedme · Answer

Hell ya... !! That's fun, and a big turn on for me, i surrender... lol😂😂😁

RebeccaW · Answer

Yeah it's kinda hot but not that comfortable

ConfusedGinger21 · Answer

Yeah I'm submissive most the time

Elizabeth_Rose · Answer

I rather the bed more comfortable

Cristal4U · Answer

Hell yes fkn heavy Sexy 💋💋💋

pepper1993 · Answer

It depends on the guy lol. If we've been together for a while then sure why not, I'm game. Now if its like the first or second date and we're still really getting to know each other and he aggressively pushes me back against the wall while making out he might end up with my knee rammed somewhere he really wouldn't appreciate lol...