Am I wrong for wanting to break up after this?

[Anonymous]

Ok me and my boyfriend of 6 months had sex without a condom. He know I prefer using condoms as a way to have safe sex. But it seem like he only uses them when he feels like it. Today we had sex and I thought he put on a condom but nope midway through he tells me that he going to pull out.(I should’ve just asked beforehand but I just assumed he knows to be prepared when I stay over ) . I don’t trust the pull out method and is always paranoid when he does it. I told him to go half on a plan b pill with me so it can ease my mind but he refused to do it and said I’ll be ok and that he pulled out. He dismisses and chuckles when I try to tell him about precum , and that i can still get pregnant etc. He just tells me that I’m overreacting and that I’m not ovulating and that it’s a real small percentage. He acts as if I don’t know my own body. I told him that he isn’t a women and wouldn’t know since he seem to have a rebuttal for every point I try to make. I just feel like even if it’s not that important to him that he still should’ve met me half way.

[Reamer]

No your not wrong, he betrayed your trust and wishes with somthing very serious,(100% for his own pleasure) he then follows it up by being super dismissive and an idot.
Somthing that is important to you should be important to him that's a relationship.

[Benjamin_HM]

I also like sex without condom , because when I cum in vagina it gives me lots of pleasure. I feel that I release millions of live creatures inside her body and vagina should be happy meeting these amount of live guests.

[Asker]

I understand but if neither of us are in the position to be parents , wouldn’t you help by the plan b if your not going to use condoms?

[Benjamin_HM]

yes , of course. Plan be would be the only helper.

[Anonymous]

I’ve been through this with the same kind of guys, being pressured into the pull out method. Their pleasure is more important than safe sex. It’s a sign of disrespect and selfishness. Dump him.

[ushagomez]

Maybe it’s time to trade him in for a better model.

[Marilynjuana]

Oh what the actual fuck. Dump his arse. What a dickhead.

[chriscdi]

so you go by his word, ever came to mind to just look at his dick to see if he is wearing one or not

[Asker]

It was dark... And he never said he put it on I just assumed because he knows how I feel about them.

[chriscdi]

grab his dick and feel, you got all your senses right lol nah but foreal, its worth breaking up if you dont like these risks

[Asker]

thxs I don’t want to play a game of should’ve , would’ve , could’ve. Just asking about after the facts.

[chriscdi]

💯🙏🏽

[MannMitAntworten]

Get the Plan B yourself and end things with him.

[Iron_Man]

Why are even having sex?

[Asker]

Wdym? We’re both adults. i know 6 mo is too early for some but I didn’t asked to be judged about that.

[Marilynjuana]

I think it's more a matter of "Why are you sleeping with someone who doesn't even respect you"

[Asker]

@Marilynjuana my first ever boyfriend so yes I made some mistakes on my end and got caught up.

[Marilynjuana]

I get it. But I think it's time to respect yourself.. This guy sounds like a massive tool.

[Bman4907]

Best way to respond, if he doesn't respect you enough to wear a condom when you ask him to, then he doesn't respect you. MOVE ON. Why would you want to reward bad behavior?

[Twalli]

Precum only has sperm in it in specific cases and I doubt this was one of them. Although that's not the point. He raped you, plain and simple. You did not agree to raw sex. That's rape.

[turbografx16]

He doesn't respect you or potential consequences. Leave him