Why do I feel bad after casual dating and does it mean I should stop?
I am a very emotional and insecure person and I have been hurt badly by the guy who was my first everything and almost relationship so I can't think about trying to love someone new right now.
But I still want to know more about sex and not feel like I am missing out on something at my age everyone else doesn't.
So I started to think about casual dating but I was worried I'd feel used and unimportant. Since I am insecure about my person and looks, basically everything, and I get hurt easily, am very emotional and not confident.
I thought I could become more sexually confident and less insecure with casual dating but I don't know. I ask myself what do I want. I want validation basically. That I am not useless and still have worth (after I got hurt last time). But I don't know If casual dating can give me satisfaction. Sometimes it feels like I would be doing something wrong, I don't know.
I haven't had sex yet but met with a couple guys and I never get negative response about myself but I still feel insecure. And they didn't fit me I thought. I wasn't attracted and moved on. But after being too frustrated I just went with it and made out with another man I met, it didn't go further than kissing, touching and a handjob. I was not really into it. But I don't know if it was because I wasn't really attracted to him eather or if I just don't like it casually in general. I am just so confused.
I felt empty after doing this stuff. I want to meet with someone I really am attracted to but it didn't work out till now.
Did I just have bad luck or do you believe I am not fit for this?
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