What is he thinking?

[havealaugh]

Hello. I am kinda new to this whole girlsaskguys thing so sorry if I am kinda weird.

To start off, I broke up with my ex at the end of 2019. Thankfully, I had my friends to support me. Anyways, I have been texting with a guy friend of mine and when we were little kids we used to have crushes on each other but as we have grown up, we have decided to stay friends.

Sometimes he can be horny when I am texting him and I have a dirty mind so that doesn't help the situation but it is all fun and games. He makes jokes about sex but we both know we would never that or anything but it kinda makes my day that much funnier. He called me a hoe and a tool and I make joked back like Oh no, I think I am one and this time he responded yes, you are but you are my hoe. And then sometimes I'll make jokes about my appearance like see that trash can? That's were I live and recently he will laugh and but say no you're beautiful or ha no you're hotter than that.

He continues to compliment my appearance and who I am as a person instead of making jokes roasting me. Usually when I text him he will say that he is really horny and make sexual jokes, which I laugh at but I'm beginning to think he isn't really thinking of me as a friend anymore.
What do you think?

How could I respond to this?

[chriscdi]

i dont think he ever thought of you as a friend, for a friendship we have guys, we dont need women for a friendship, he wants to drill

[havealaugh]

So you don't think his comments are fun and games eh? I will look into that. Does it matter if he likes when I think of something dirty and begs me to tell him?

[chriscdi]

you tell me, does it matter, to me it doesn't, i dont care about what happens here lol but no i dont think its all fun and games, if a guy only sees a girl as a friend its cause they aren't physically attractive to them, if he is talking dirty to you it means he lowkey wanna clap cheeks

[havealaugh]

Okay, good to know thank you.

[chriscdi]

💯🙏🏽

[COMMODOREII]

He could be trying to keep you from thinking negatively.

[BeingAnzalKhan]

Everyone gets a second chance in life to make things better.. So, ai think you both should think over it again.
Sometimes it happens We take decision out of anger or misconception. It's better to start over again and go ahead of you both enjoy eachother company.

[havealaugh]

You think that we should not be friends?

[BeingAnzalKhan]

No, be friends.. if you feel then you can pursue it into serious relationship

[havealaugh]

Yeah I like being friends with him. He actually calls me his best friend. Does that mean anything because obviously this is going deeper than I thought.

[BeingAnzalKhan]

Yea.. let it go.. do whateva makes you both feel happy..

[ecfresh]

He thinks you are a friend

[Iron_Man]

Concentrate on graduating high school it’s not good to have relationships too much drama and takes away from your schooling

[havealaugh]

Yes I am first but I want to find out why he is doing this. I am not looking for a relationship with him.

[Iron_Man]

It’s obvious He likes you

[havealaugh]

Really? Even though he sees me just as a friend? I have asked him before about this recently.

[Iron_Man]

Yes he’s hiding it

[ItalianGuy322]

The guy is seeing you as a friend because you are not responding to the lewd things he is saying like he wants you to bottom line.

[havealaugh]

So he sees me as a friend.

[ItalianGuy322]

From what you wrote it seems like he is trying to sext and you are not doing it so maybe he just gave up on it so this is why the conversation has changed to where he seems just like a friend.

[havealaugh]

No we do not exchange sexts at all. Okay. He was first to say I like you as a friend though which was 3 years ago. I will look into that.

[ItalianGuy322]

No I am saying you said he sent messages like that to you though. You just did not give him the reply he was looking for right?

[havealaugh]

I guess. I always try/deflect away from his horniness but then I will accidentally say something later that sounds dirty and he will continue and base the conversation on that.

[ItalianGuy322]

As a guy I can tell you it is definitely that lol. That is exactly how I would act or have acted with girls before.

[havealaugh]

Okay, thank you.

[ItalianGuy322]

No problem

[Browniev]

Well we do need to hav more information on him to answer that.. and how does it go when u meet him..

[havealaugh]

What do you mean?

[Browniev]

Well to judge what he intends... wouldn't i need to more about ur relationship.. the vibe n all.. and what type of guy he is

[Anonymous]

This guy wants to have sex with you and is probably thinking you’re game for it since you’ve joked around about it. He sounds like me when I was younger lol