I want to have sex but should I really have sex if we’be only been dating for two months and known each other for three?

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This guy always says that I’m the girl he wants to marry, how much he loves me, and how he wants to grow old with me even before we started talking about sexual things and I think that I’ve found the one. I’m the one that has been initiating sexual things like putting his hands on my breasts, jerking him off, and I put my mouth on his part for a few seconds only because I was afraid to get caught at my parent’s house. And I’ve surprised myself by doing this because I am a very shy girl that can’t even make eye contact but I am always horny and I have never had sex with anyone I just started using my hands and mouth on him because I really wanted to he’s a complete gentlemen if it’s wasn’t for me we wouldn’t have done anything. I trust this guy with all my heart and also I love him and he loves me too and I really want to lose my virginity to him with protection because I am always super horny, I feel bad that I’ve never experienced things, I’m very curious, and I already know that he’s the only guy I want to do it with. I really want to I just hope that what I’ve been doing isn’t wrong and if I do have sex with him with protection of course it isn’t the wrong thing to do because I want our relationship to last a long time and I hope he doesn’t view me as easy. I really want to have sex for the first time with him by the way he is 22 and I am 18 and he is not a virgin but I am. I get very horny and I can masterbate up to 6 times a day

DIRKINOFF · Accepted Answer

Listen babe, how well can your boyfriend really know you after only 3 months (and wasn't he MIA for a while there?)? Well enough to know that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you? Or you him? You're too young to be concerned with things like marriage.
Now sex, if you feel like he is the one you want to lose your v card to then go get you that cock! I view sex differently than a lot of people, to me it's just sex... there doesn't have to be any emotional connection, just a good way to pass some time. Maybe the best way. Probably different for a woman though since you are the one being, for lack of a better word, violated.
There are studies that show that people do lose respect for someone if they give it up too easily.
Maybe move onto more oral play first and then after that consider vaginal intercourse. I doubt this helped very much if at all, my brains are scrambled today.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Get yourself on the pill. Tell him that you love him and want to give yourself to him completely. You can even ask if he would think less of you if you gave yourself to him. If all the signals are good, tell him that you just started taking the pill just for him because you think about him all the time and want him badly. Don't use a condom. It will detract from the experience for both of you.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

Let him play with you and lick you first till you cum. It will feel better that way, plus you’ll get used to the idea of a guy doing stuff with your kitty. After that, if you’re ready and you’re being safe and you can have some privacy without getting caught, go for it 💕.

AustinMan · Answer

If you feel a strong emotional connection, go for it with him.

Tdieseler · Answer

lol @ the update..."... view me as easy" hahahahahahahaha... honey, he already does.
ur jail-bait... easy pickings. i want you to remember this a few years from now... and would love it if you sent me a message that i was right... this is NOT, i repeat, NOT the guy for you.
Now if you wanna bone him, just take a deep breath and get it over with, but ur delusions of "the one"... this ain't it honey.

ohshee · Answer

You already know what your going to do ,, weigh it out
I love him
He says he love you
Your hoping for a life time commitment
You can't control what tomorrow brings
Today he is your world
If I do it today and we break up tomorrow I'm I need with it
I'm I doing it for all the right reason

Like I said your post say your going to do it so wear protection for both lol
Your just now starting to experience life you can't do it with a baby

Phoenix98 · Answer

It’s up to you but only do it if your comfortable with it. If your not then nothing wrong with taking things slow. either way make sure you do it safely.

Tattia · Answer

you can usually have sex on a third date

crmoore · Answer

If I was in that situation, I'd personally wait longer. But plenty of people do it and it's not an issue. However, I'd be willing to bet you're more like me when it comes to modesty and that sort of thing. That being said, it's entirely acceptable if you two have sex.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Just take it slow and as it comes. Enjoy the experience. When the time comes it will come but don't worry or think about it too much. You are good. Definitely look into how to protect yourselves from any unwanted pregnancies and enjoy each other. If he is not pushing you that's good too.

Twalli · Answer

Wait at least 3 months of dating. I waited 6, but we were both virgins at that time.

BoxySama · Answer

Get it in babe, don't be a prude and wait for marriage b*******, feel good! Make sure he knows how to trigger a climax

NortyRich · Answer

Be careful as tbh as a teenager I used that as I'm sure many other males did...

Benjamin_HM · Answer

You should lose your virginity to an older guy who knows how to break hymen with less pain

abc--123 · Answer

Do it when it feels right there's no set time

Bshu2jdbxb · Answer

Your wish

CubaPirate · Answer

Only you can make that decision but remember you only lose your virginity once. So I'd advise you do it with someone special only you know if he's the one