Do you get jealous of the physical appearances of other people of your own gender?

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[robertKugler]

Yup .. I can admitt a jealousy it's a cruel world.. and can easy make u feel inadequate to fill any worthwhile role in society... I've learned attitude is what prevails.. and my attitude towards jealousy... no comprende.. it serves no function or purpose n is irrelevant to any aspect of my life to any ones life. Once you felt once or twice.. it has zero satisfying qualities n waste of time egknowlaging the things I can't change bothering you all time... right.. I hate my friends their all got two inches on me one way or a other they r never single long pick up girls no prop.. fuck em n Chuck em over n over.. but tall dark handsome features.. r the dominate qualities woman subconsciously seek that why they might not even like the guy but sleep with him any way cause it notch in their belt subconsciously.. I can't stand going out with them cause they win even time even when a girl goes home with me it's cause they actually want my friend but only physically once they slept with em they find out what asses they r... but rather go that route for what reason... there isn't one.. they go out with me in the winter... n cheat on me spring... not cause the don't like me or i suck in bed.. they don t plan or intend and profess the opposite consciously... But it's the subconcious attraction that will find a way for it to" just happen". I also know that is worked in my favour enough that I can say I've out grown superficial nonse... you should too if u havnt.. find a better cause to give a shit about. ll

[Anonymous]

I think this is very common with women, but for me as a guy, no, never. Not jealous. 99% of the time, we guys aren't looking at other guys appearances. We could care less lol. But, having said that, have I noticed a guy's appearance before and thought he was attractive, yes a couple of times. But not attractive as in I find him attractive lol, but attractive in that I'll think, "boy I bet the women love him". But I'm not jealous. It's a passing thought and that's it. There's no "feelings" behind it.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

When I was a teenager, I thought I was extremely unattractive and just kind of assumed most girls were much prettier than me and that I never stood a chance against them. Oddly enough, I didn't really feel much jealousy over it, I just saw it as the way it was, but would sometimes become frustrated with myself because I thought I wasn't good enough.

However, when I had crushes who would get attention from other girls or who I knew liked other girls, I would compare myself to them (as well as girls I knew they had dated in the past) to see if I had any chance, and my self esteem was so low that I was convinced that I was way worse off than those girls.

Looking back, none of what my mind told me about not being as good as those girls was even true. I was way too harsh on myself.

Anyway, now I don't really bother comparing myself to other women. I've realized comparison really is the thief of joy and I also finally learned to accept and appreciate myself over the years, so I no longer feel the need to compare myself to anyone else anymore. I am happy with the way I look now, and I don't feel the need to be the prettiest girl in the world. For what?

[Cynicaldreamer]

All the time. Probably on a weekly to daily basis if we're being honest here-

I have crappy self esteem regarding my body, and YES, I'm working to improve it: mostly be working out and trying to lose weight, gain muscle, and ideally boost my confidence.

However when I'm at the gym, store, around town, heck, even at work and I see women effortless look good or can lose weight without trying? It's demoralizing and I'm envious of how good they look, the attention they get, or how I wish a figure like them.

For example, I have one friend at work that is gorgeous: about 5'8" weighs only 119 pounds! She lost about 30-40 pounds in a few months after she had her baby. She can lose weight without even trying hard, yet eats burgers and junk food all the time :|
Me? I gain weight just looking at it... damn genetics and metabolism.

[Kit_Kat88]

Does it cause you to feel resentment towards them?

[Cynicaldreamer]

@Kit_Kat88 Some of them, yeah. I know that's wrong, but especially the ones that are naturally skinny, or look good without trying, it's SO annoying to think I exercise so hard and can barely lose weight, or if I do, it requires strict dieting, and busting my butt at the gym. Yet they either have good genetics, or are just lucky enough to be skinny, pretty, or attractive with minimal effort.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

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[Nerdvana]

@cynicaldreamer Your honest is very sexy to me.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@Nerdvana Thank you! I wish honesty was a reflection of looks, I would be super sexy if that was the case! Haha

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I would have been a God then lol😂😇

[Cynicaldreamer]

@Aakash_Hangargi That bad huh? LOL

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yup i am brutally honest and mostly i had bad consequences bc of it but also people valued of i had an opinion as honest

[McMillanD]

Jealousy is natural (to an extent).
Most people are competitive by nature and jealousy is a great motivator when put to constructive use. For example, I often think "oh I wish I had her flat belly" and that will motivate me to work harder for my own etc.
But on the flip side jealousy can be very destructive to both a relationship and your self esteem if you are unable to manage said feelings.

[close2heaven]

I can say I never do NOW, but the past was a very different situation

[laraWM]

Not jealous, but sometimes think the girl I see is beautiful

[ConfusedGinger21]

I always get jelly. Perfect looks everyday

[matchrestore]

From time to time, but I'm fine with my appearance.

[YourGirlGigi]

Nope. It's the other way around.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I don't get jealous. Envious, maybe, with appreciation or admiration for the other woman who might hold an edge or a standard over me. That doesn't happen often though.

[ZackBan]

Well usually it's famous people with perfect builds but yeah I do get jealous.
Although I personally don't anyone who's build makes me jealous granted I do know guys with great builds but I never feel too lacking by comparaison.

[ChelsiChu]

All the time! Oh what I wouldn't give to have larger breasts, even to just graduate one letter would be a big deal for me.

[Karin_Anna]

I don't consider myself unattractive and i do have a great body but i still look at all women and some I do find myself envious of.

[bluehen46]

Once again why do women have such bad self body image?

[Elliegirl]

It’s happened, but not very often.

[the_bruh]

No, I have great friends. If I'm out at public it's because of my friends, they never give me a chance to glance at others with us laughing and eating all the time.

[Jjpayne]

Yes, id say at least once a week 😂

[OlderThanILook]

Yes. Every time I work out or look myself in the mirror, I know I'm nowhere good enough to get attention from girls when there are guys with naturally good genes everywhere. They can eat what they want and not exercise to the point where they are considered overweight, but it doesn't matter because they have good facial hair and bone structure. It's honestly bullshit.

[RydiaMagnifique]

Every day, worse than anything.

[Ellie-V]

No, not anymore. People need to learn to love themselves and be more selfish and self-serving. You don’t really have time for be jealous of others when you’re focused on being the best version of yourself.

[SphynxUK]

I’ve never felt jealous of anyone. We are all unique after all, and I’m just glad I have a fully functioning body! (Most of the time!)

[Dongtai]

Jealous? No. I do get inspired to workout more and to be more dedicated in the gym by some guys though. But it’s never to the point where I’ve felt beneath anyone because I know my own worth and that there’s no one out there like me.

[itsjustlew]

I mainly admire their looks because I'm bi. I think "wow she's thicc" not "wow I'm jealous" Girls are hot to me like they are to guys so It's more eye candy to me and I don't ever get envious.