Om average, how long can a guy go without sex before feeling urges?

My soon to be husband and I have sex about 1 to 3 times a week. Just curious, how long before an average guy gets a strong need for love makin'?
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  • It totally depends on the guy and his schedule. when my schedule slows down, I want it all the time. And I mean all the time! When I'm well rested my girl is around me and looking good, it's all I can think about. But when I'm busy, or I'm working long days and long nights, then I can go weeks without it. I just don't have the energy in my mind is full!

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  • without urges? a few days in a relationship, a few hours out of a relationship

    the knowledge of knowing i COULD have sex right now if i wanted to calms the libido

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  • It doesn't take long. I usually need it constantly with my girl around, so I try my best to keep her happy and able to help out. We started long distance though, and it was really a struggle for the first little while. It's a long story. But yeah :) To answer your question, it depends on the circumstances.

  • after 15days without sex or jacking off at all, I'll be getting random hard-ons just by walking down the sidewalk and thinking about a cute girl

  • Usually, when I'm in relationship, we have sex around 2 to 4 times a week. If it is serious of course.

  • It depends on what counts as an urge. Are you talking like a guy saying "I'd love to nut right now" on a whim? Or a full on erection/specific desire to fuck a woman?

  • Without anything to distract me? About an hour

  • About 5 days to week
    After that we wanna fuck
    Thats just my honest opinion

  • I can get hard within 30 minutes after, the next day I will want sex again but it will not bother me if I can't get it, by day three I am going to get some or self fondle, after that if it looks like it is not going to happen soon I commit to a man to hand relationship. After two years I will take any gal that comes my way and feels like she wants my sex.

  • If the guys has sex often the he will expect it more often so if suddenly he stops having sex then he will have a stronger urge to have it.

  • It varies, because everyone's sex drive is different.

  • For his entire

  • Just depends. I'm sure

  • Because i have a high end sex drive. I can go for two days max

  • One day... That's just my opinion though lol

  • Phht I'm single n if I wasn't 24/7. I think I'm wrong type for this answer I'm not that normal 😂

  • I can go a month.

  • there is times i can go a month or 2 depending but right now being single dont help

  • 2 mins! LOL Like with women, it would vary greatly from guy to guy and I guess would depend what "strong" was? Most guys though would like sex daily, so if I were to guess on an "average" I'd say daily. At least for desire, it could be mild to strong but so many things affect that.

    I personally find also it makes a difference if I'm getting sex or not. Surprisingly when I'm getting regular sex, the desire is stronger and more frequent than when I'm not. You'd think it would be the other way around, but nope! lol

  • Well he better get used to not getting it because if he’s getting married that’s going to change to almost never.
    you’ll be lucky to get it on special occasions or if he’s done something worthy of getting rewarded.

    he’s also going to find himself getting pressured to not look at natural male visual fantasy, because that’s the only way that women can control us is to cut off all other sources of sexual interest and then use sex as a weapon and a tool.

  • Like every week. I’ve been dry for a full year now. I’m going crazy.