How hard is it to find a woman who doesn’t want kids and loves sex?

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All4ur_pleazure · Accepted Answer

It’s only as hard as you make it. If you ask the right questions up front then you’ll know. Like several people have posted here, views change over time and few stick to their original plan. She may say now she just wants lots of sex and no kids (ever) and 5-10 years down the road you’re while you’re lost in man thought you’re suddenly in the, “let’s have a baby, what do you think of us having kids, everyone around us is having kids, babies are so cute” conversation. Either that or when you get home she’s saying she’s got a surprise for you handing you a pregnancy test she took around noon saying she’s late by a couple of weeks (didn’t want to jump the gun by testing the first week) and guess who’s going to be a father with a smile on her face!!

BeenThereLovedIt · Accepted Answer

I've known one girl personally in my entire life who stated that she didn't want kids, but wanted marriage, love, and everything else. She stated this when we were kids, and damn if we aren't 50 now and she held true. I only wish I knew myself as well as she apparently did, but point is, she was the only female I ever have known to even say that, much less carry through with it.

Other than that, ariana maddox on vanderpump rules says the same thing, but I never actually met her, so even outside or personally knowing them, that's still only two women I know of.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Not hard at all. We exist. We're usually the ones guys pass over, they aren't interested in dating, or we are friendzoned- at least based on my experience. I don't like or want kids, and obviously love sex with the right guy. If anything I've had issues finding guys that don't want kids! You just have to be patient and find a woman with the same ideals as you have.

gaygod_19 · Accepted Answer

Well it’s hard. Coming from my experiences of dating lesbians and bisexuals: most of them want at least one, i used to date this girl who wanted at least 3 kids and she said if we’re wealthy then LETS HAVE SIX. It’s hard.

Rapidash · Answer

Depends where you look?

Quackthulu · Answer

Not that hard. The hard part would be finding one who is actually attractive and willing to stoop to your level.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Probably a little difficult, but not impossible. There are women out there who don't want children.

Dutchgirl97 · Answer

Its easy when you're young, but a lot of the times they change their mind when theyre older or found a guy they want a family with.

JackSmy · Answer

Better yet, a wonderful lady that is unable to have children, that most reject!! I would love to meet one like that, and if she wanted children, we could adopt one in need of a home!

Dinklex3 · Answer

I mean.. i love sex and don't want kids.  I know about 6 other friends that feel the same.

depressoexpresso · Answer

Maybe you should look for somebody who is working hard on a career or sth like that. Some women just don't wish to have a kid, some make it as their life depends on it. Others can balance both

ecfresh · Answer

Not hard

SphynxUK · Answer

I voted ‘hard’ simply because men pussyfoot about too much when meeting someone new!
Ask those question! Be upfront!
But bear in mind, a woman of any age may change her mind about children at any given time, for whatever reason. And you might also.
I never wanted children.
However, I ended up with 2 by choice! Life cannot be planned. Decisions made now aren’t set in stone.

Kaneki05 · Answer

So millions upon millions. You would have to be an idiot to think it's hard to find someone who don't want kids and likes sex

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Depends on where you're looking; for some, it's easy, for some, it's hard.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

been somewhat looking for one myself. no real luck however. might be my dating pool though.

blutwolfe · Answer

Not hard at all, most women don't want kids and like to sleep around

Hize99 · Answer

To me, the guy will always want to have sexual things and at the end leave without caring about her so its pretty much difficult to find it but easy to think of it because men seem to want to always have these things over real love lol

Unit1 · Answer

Extremely hard  🤔 Most pinks go around saying "i want marriage and kids". But hey, they do exist. But then again, finding them is even harder than finding a girlfriend 😂😂😂