Girls, have you ever been spanked by a boyfriend/busband as a punishment?

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Or guys did you ever spanked your significant other? If yes what happend so you had to go into that direction. I'm curious because that just happend to me and I find it outrageous.

Girls, have you ever been spanked by a boyfriend/busband as a punishment?

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TaniaUncensored Xper 5
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I have been spanked but just because it is fun and not for punishment play. I suppose the closest i have come to this is he asked me If i was a bad girl while spanking me and naturally I said I was a very bad girl.
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- Massageman
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  Very! ;- )
- asshole_
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  Wow. I uh, well, wow
LuvMeSomeBoys Yoda
+1 y
Lol, no. And if he did he knows it will result in his immediate death.
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- asshole_
  +1 y
  If he did it though, do you think youd be turned on by it, as many women, are
- LuvMeSomeBoys
  +1 y
  No, I would not be. He knows not to try. He has to sleep sometime, and I will get even.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  I wouldn't want to ever date you

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AustinMan Influencer
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Let me ask you some questions. What did you do? Did he tell you that if you did it you'd get a spanking? Outrage aside, did you deserve it? If not, is there anything you could do to warrant a sore, red bottom?
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- Asker
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  Well it's a loong story that started six months ago. Things were not well between us anymore. Disagreements on every little thing, tension. Our company went to bankruptcy. He started to have dark moods, didn't let me help him. I decided to separate for a while. He was against it but he accepted anyway because it's better then a divorce. These months I had one affair and he found out eventually. I ended that affair right away because I still love my husband. What did he do? Went crazy and started to another woman. Yesterday I caught them together in our house and I started a big fight. He broke up with her immediately and after she left he spanked me. He told me it was my decision to leave and meet another man and now I can't just question him. He didn't stop for like 10 minutes. I feel ashamed and I can't call the police on him. Even if I would, his father is a influential judge. A part of me thinks I deserved it.. but then again he pushed me to my decision to leave him.
- AustinMan
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  What a saga! Has he spanked you before? If so, why? Do you feel like you deserved to be disciplined generally? What do you think of the prospect that you apologize to him and accept his discipline and then you can forgive each other. He shouldn't have taken up with her but I, and I believe you, get why he did it.
- AustinMan
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  by the way, if you 'd like to take this offline, just message and follow me.
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- Asker
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  Well yes he did spank me before.. once, but not so hard like now! First time he was sorry and said that he would never do something like that. I messed up something pretty bad and he risked a lot of things, including his work. I thought he would divorce but he considered my bottom would pay the price ( his words, not mine) Eventually things were done my way so it was a win-win. He had his part of guilt and he knows it. I felt guilty as well but I don't know if I deserved it. I mean it's wrong because I'm not a child. I didn't even received this kind of treatment from my parents. It's just weird because I'm a grown up woman and getting spanked to tears by the man I love it's so twisted.
Anonymous
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No but I've been spanked by a female childhood friend. I failed a class in college, and instead of her telling my dad and making me come home, she spanked me.
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- Asker
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  Oh my God. That's awful and not normal.
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah it's a long story, but I'm okay with it now. She's like a mom to me, so she only did it because she cares a lot about me and wants me to stop fucking around in college.

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QooLipBite Yoda
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I have given spanks as punishment
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Why? What she did to earn that? But it was consensual, right?
- QooLipBite
  +1 y
  Well were you a bad girl?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Consent it's important! That's why I asked.
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- QooLipBite
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  Yes, it was consensual. But were you a bad girl?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Well yes.
- QooLipBite
  +1 y
  Well there you have it! That’s why you got spanks 😘 Be a good girl and you won’t have to worry about it. :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm not a child. Of course I worry about it. I didn't wish for that to happen. It wasn't my choice!
- QooLipBite
  +1 y
  But you’re a baby girl! What did you do to get spanks?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Someone here asked me the same thing. I will copy-paste my answer: Well it's a loong story that started six months ago. Things were not well between us anymore. Disagreements on every little thing, tension. Our company went to bankruptcy. He started to have dark moods, didn't let me help him. I decided to separate for a while. He was against it but he accepted anyway because it's better then a divorce. These months I had one affair and he found out eventually. I ended that affair right away because I still love my husband. What did he do? Went crazy and started to another woman. Yesterday I caught them together in our house and I started a big fight. He broke up with her immediately and after she left he spanked me. He told me it was my decision to leave and meet another man and now I can't just question him. He didn't stop for like 10 minutes. I feel ashamed and I can't call the police on him. Even if I would, his father is a influential judge. A part of me thinks I deserved it.. but then again he pushed me to my decision to leave him.
Kitz95 Xper 4
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No and they better not even try.
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- asshole_
  +1 y
  Do you think though that if they did, you might be turned on by it, as many women often are
- Kitz95
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  @asshole_ I have no problem with spanking sexually, but as a form of punishment is completely different to me. I’m a grown woman I don’t need that kind of disciplinary action. But if we’re playing I don’t see anything wrong with some spanking.
- asshole_
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  It's spanking no matter though You're still being spanked, regardless
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- Kitz95
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  @asshole_ lol you really don’t get the difference. Hitting as punishment isn’t something that is meant for pleasure. I’m not a child that need correcting and my partner is not someone that needs to give corporal punishment to teach me a lesson, like I said I’m a grown woman. There’s a time and a place for everything and spanking outside of sex isn’t for me.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  It's like saying, a spade, isn't a spade, even though two spades, do the same thing Why would you call one spade a spade, but the other something else? The point is, it's spanking, regardless. If it turns you on, in bed (sexually), why wouldn't it turn you on, when being "punished"
- Kitz95
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  @asshole_ Ever heard of being in “the mood.” It’s not just the act, but also what it represents. My ex liked when I scratched him up during sex, it didn’t mean he liked it whenever I felt like he did something I didn’t like. It’s not the same, sorry you don’t have the capability to see the difference.
- asshole_
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  He liked when you scaratched him "in bed", but not elsewhere it's like saying, a spade is a spade outside, but, once you bring it in, it's called something else. It's not, it's the same thing, no matter where it is Point is, if you like it in bed, why wouldn't you like it, when being 'pusnihed"
- Asker
  +1 y
  @asshole it's a big difference. There is a thing named consent which my husband didn't use. Punishing me without my consent wasn't sexual. Not even for him. Let's imagine that you fight with your girlfriend. You proceed to spank her without permission. You are angry. You are hurting her. She is trying to get loose, but you won't let go. No pleasure for her. Just pain. And that's wrong on so many levels. Doesn't mather that you two had many "spanking" sessions in bed. That was for fun. Punishment isn't.
- Kitz95
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  @asshole_ Like i said it’s the mood. I don’t get spanked to be punished, it’s to enhance how I’m already feeling. It’s like eating when I’m hungry. I like food but if I’m already full I don’t want it. Food is food, but if I’m not hungry I DON’T WANT IT.
- Asker
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  @Kitz95 good way to explain it! ✌ couldn' say it better
- Kitz95
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  Lol there’s probably something wrong with this guy’s head. He really chose the right username.
- asshole_
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  You two have no idea what you're talking about and you're only defending the answerer, because she's a woman GET OVER IT YOU KNOW IM RIGHT
- Kitz95
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  @asshole_ Lol ok hun. I literally explained it in simple terms, I’m sorry your pretty little head can’t understand. So sure you’re right, I’m over it. You should probably go take a little nap. One question though, is your name asshole because all you spew is shit? Have a good night hun.
- Asker
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  Ok. Let's imagine something else:You are a masochist and you enjoy pain. But you need the power to stop it when you can't take it anymore. That involves consent. The other person would understand and it will stop. That's the difference. I didn't have that chance so I can stop him. I didn' want it. I was not in the mood.
- asshole_
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  Get over it girls, you know im right
- Asker
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  @Kitz don't bother. He is stubborn and not so open-minded on this subject
Dargil Master
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In today's climate, I'd go to jail for that,
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Massageman Editor
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Never enough ;- )
Even my hooker is going soft on me!
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Desconhecida Editor
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I wish!
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- asshole_
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  Does it turn you on?
- Desconhecida
  +1 y
  It's one of my fantasies
- asshole_
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  Go figure, a girl who gets turned on and has a fantasy by spanking Who'da thought @QA LMAO
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- Desconhecida
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  I'm unique LOL
- asshole_
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  No, it's just about the same with every woman Even if they can't admit it
- Desconhecida
  +1 y
  What do you mean?
- asshole_
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  I'm saying, LOTS of women, if not most women, get off, from spanking. They just like it, and many, fantasize about it. IT'S NOT JUST YOU
- Asker
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  @asshole you again! 😅Hi. No, it's not the same with every woman. Every person is different, dude! Our tastes are different, our wishes are different. How can your brain doesn't understand this concept? Maybe @Desconhecida has that fantasy but I bet she would like to have the power to stop that punishment when it gets worst. She knows better, ofc! A privileage I didn't receive and that's awful. So like I said. Spanking in bed is fun. Punishment without consent is wrong.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  It's the same with almost every woman Again, don't listen to QA, answerer.. she's just trying to hate on me, because I'm telling her the correct thing and she doesn't like it
- Desconhecida
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  I sense tension.. 😅
- asshole_
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  She doesn't like that im right, lol
- Asker
  +1 y
  Geez, don't flatter yourself. I don't hate people so easily. I don't like your way of thinking. You have to accept people are different. It's like you are telling me everyone loves bananas but maybe same people are allergic to it. Do you understand now?
- asshole_
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  Yes, allergic sure But, "liking it" is not "being allergic" It's like saying, a spade is a spade, in the garden, but, it's all the sudden not a spade, when it's inside the house No, ITS STILL A SPADE
- Asker
  +1 y
  Haah! A spade is a spade. But you can keep your spade in your house. Like a freaking decor! But if you go out of your way and use your spade outside, hurting people, well... that's wrong.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  But that's not what a spade is for. Of course. People use things "wrong" all the time
- Asker
  +1 y
  Exactly! See ! People are different. Some people are using a spade in the garden. Some people knock someone's head with a spade and that's wrong, like I said.
- asshole_
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  That doesn't mean spanking is a "fatal" thing
- Asker
  +1 y
  It can be.. if the person who receives it suffers heart condition. Even so.. no one has the right to spabk their partner without their consent. Some people don't enjoy pain. Eg:They have 0 tolerance for pain. I wonder how many times you spanked your girlfriend (if you have one) without her consent. And you didn't stop even if she begged you to? See the picture? That's wrong
- asshole_
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  No hun, it can't be GET OVER IT
- Asker
  +1 y
  You hate I am right. It'a fine.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  Nope You hate, I'm right
- Asker
  +1 y
  Ugh!
NorthwestRider Guru
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My fiancée loves spanking me and sometimes I spank her hehe
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asshole_ Yoda
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You didn't find it arousing though?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  No way! It hurt.. how can that be arousing😶 Never experienced something like that before.
- asshole_
  +1 y
  Lots of women, are turned on by spanking
- Asker
  +1 y
  Really? It was against my will.. pain is not my thing.
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- asshole_
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  Some people like pain
- girlzruleboyzdrool
  +1 y
  My husband has spanked me too. It hurts so i get it
Anonymous
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Yea... we regularly spank each other as punishment... it's like a deal between us but it's always consensual and i have ti stop if she says stop n vice versa. Few times we have spanked each other very badly too.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  If it's not against your will, I guess it's ok. But punishment for what? What are you doing to earn that?
- Opinion Owner
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  Anything about me or her that makes other angry then we vent the frustration by spanking. Like last once she talked with a guy n fir few days n kept ít secret from me tho there was nothing sexual but I spanked her n she accepted it as punishment.
- Opinion Owner
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  He cheated so you should spank him too. My wife woukd just pull my pant n sosnk me if I had cheat on him
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- Opinion Owner
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  Or spanknhim to tears when he's sleep
- Asker
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  Well.. he cheated after I had that affair. We were separated. But he did thst to get even. He spanked me because I got angry on him ( due to the fact I caught him with another woman in our house.) I couldn't do that to him because 1. He is way taller and stronger than me. 2. Hurting him it's wrong. I mean he hurt me and it was so painful...
- Opinion Owner
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  Did he apologised later or say anything sympathetic. Did he spankedyiu with whip or hand bate butt or over clothes. Why do t you leave him n file w police complain
- Asker
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  If I would call police he could get out in no time. His father is a judge. Besides I can't send him to jail. I still love him, I can't change that so fast. He pulled up my dress and spanked me with his hand. He didn't stop even when I begged him to. Well next morning he did show remorse and he bought me a cream for healing. Oh well.. everything it's chaos!
- Opinion Owner
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  I see but what 8t this become normal yiu would be left red butted every couple 9f days.. that's why I m saying have an agreement that whoever is wrong will be spanked.
Anonymous
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Ya when i go out and one home drunk my husband spanks me and takes my phone away
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- minuteman12
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  How hard does he spank you?
- Opinion Owner
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  Leaves red marks om my butt
- minuteman12
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  Does he spank you during sex as well?
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- asshole_
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  Did you like it?