He might. You are kind of young is there a major religious issue with him that eventhough you have sex he sees it as wrong or "dirty"? IF someone is not exposed to porn or something its possible he might not have any.
If you have friends in common or know a male friend you could try prying for info but be careful.
Just about all men fantasize about being seduced by an older women. Get yourself dolled up like a teacher and surprise him that way then maybe introduce some porn.
Now with porn i planned on writing a couple questions/thoughts but for now I will just say that in spite of what many stars say i do think in general porn is exploitive to women and part of that is intentional as men consume the most of it. Go to the conventions to meet the stars and pay to me on their websites and web chat and such. Some stars make more from their sites than scenes. He might have a hard time with it for that. Now honestly when a girl is on her knees blowing 10 guys and then drinks a cum for of all their ejaculate most guys watching are not thinking of her mind or even as much seeing her as a person but as a sl*t and that is what you want as a producer. Much of the degrading stuff that is extreme ( double and triple anal, interracial, and such) pay more and are considered more extreme. Just like football you want bigger, faster, and stronger players. In porn you want to see well you know.
I think the teacher idea might be the way to go. I love to be seduced and in talking to friends many guys do as well. Then again when girlfriends and my wife ( rarely now) throw me down a F8ck my brains out that is a real turn on. I had a girlfriend in college i did nothing wrong but a girl looked at me and i am a tad dumb and did not know she was flirting with me. My girlfriend came over took her hands off my chest ( i was a bodybuilder and we were in a gym) took me home and damn one of the best nights ever. She said "I am showing you who that belongs to"
This could potentially be a big red flag? Not because he doesn't have any, but it sounds like you two are very different sexually, which might be a big issue for you as time goes on? Depending how much this bothers you and how much you need to "spice" things up? You may not be sexually compatible? Love him or not, depending how important this is to you, it could be bad? Sounds like you are into BDSM, and he's not at all? But some guys are just like that. None of that interests me either and I don't really have any fantasies. I'm happy with the basics and don't need to "spice" things up. I think he's the same way. So yeah, maybe give this some thought. You can try talking to him more, ask him if there's anything he's thought about trying or has seen that somewhat interests him and go from there. Maybe he just needs baby steps? You could also ask if he's willing to try anything? Example I'm not into some things, but if my partner wanted to try them, I might go along to please her?
What you do now is go out and find someone you are more compatible with. seriously, that guy sounds super boring.
He does. He's either shy or his fantasies include other women so he's scared
If he ever tells me that he wants other women to be involved i will probably dump his ass.
Which is probably why he isn't saying anything
I would rather him tell me than to stay with someone like that lol
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Lol.. this has to do with age. The give away is "he doesn't like porn" . That is shit you tell your girlfriend our wife when you are young. I was too embarrassed to admit to a lot of things when I was 20 ish. Though keep in mind not everyone likes everything. Even at my age i have no desire to tie anyone up or be tied up. I will not spank anyone and even refused with one woman that asked. But that changes with time.
He really doesn't. He has a multitude of reasons that he doesn't like it.. some has to do with trauma
His father was a porn star and he hated him for it because he had to watch his mother cry and he was never home. Impacted him a lot.
TRAUMA of RELIGION
Maybe try SHOCK value, and ask him to show you what he gets off to!! Does he? Some maybe don't?
Maybe he likes something so 'kinky' he might be afraid to tell you? Or maybe he just likes it simple, and boring?
You might need to trade him in, on a more 'advanced' model!! :) :)
He doesn't like PORN? WHAT the FUCK? He must be lying or something's wrong with him. Is he hung up on jesus or grew up repressed drinking the 'koolaid' or something? Nothing will fuck you about sex like religion will!
Yes. We love Jesus. Gives us more pleasure than watching STD infested women living a miserable life.
Boy oh BOY -- did I call that one or what? I KNEW IT. Religion strikes again. It gives everyone sexual hangups --- been doing so for thousand years. So silly. Well, he DOES have FANTASIES, he just REPRESSES them to contort himself into something he 'thinks' a deity in the sky 'wants' or 'expects' or 'prefers'... it's truly sick. You guys could have a 3-way with jesus?
you're fucking sick.
Well it's definitely possible. Maybe he just hasn't found it, but he definitely could be Mr. Vanilla
If that sort of play is important to you then you may have to find a new boyfriend. It's unlikely how sexual preferences will change.
so he just likes boring old normal sex yikes
love matters or fantasies. so if he does not like it, then do not do it. otherwise, it will impact on your relationship
Go to church.
Sounds like he simply likes his sex vanilla. Not a lot you can do unless somehow you discover a kink.
he mite like you doing something yo him instead or something more extreme-ish
He's vanilla?
You’re sexually compatible and this relationship is doomed my lady friend adds he might a closet queen
He probably just doesn't realise what he likes yet. Just make him try some stuff and he will know what he liked and what he didn't.
Maybe he is just afraid to say what his fantasies are
Sit him down and have a serious talk with him. Ask him those same questions you stated here. If he doesn't or can't pony up, gently break it off and find someone your sexually compatible with. No one wants a lifetime of "eh" in the bedroom.
Is he a conservative republicucks? Sounds like he doesn't want to change his style, that's typical for republicucks
ARE YOU SURE HE IS ALIVE!
Every guy doesn't have any kinky imaginations. All they want sometimes is pure sensual play with that you can slowly get him to do what ever you widh him to do... have some patience, trust me he will surely love all your fantacies
Oh cum over here baby let's talk more about it.
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