Does losing your virginity actually hurt?

Question

I know it’s uncomfortable but, do girls actually feel a lot of pain? Does the pain ever subside? What positions should you avoid? Let me know 😊

Katerina_Belle · Accepted Answer

It hurt quite a lot for me. We had to stop. I was 23 when I lost mine and I was so convinced that it wouldn’t hurt at all but there I was screaming and pushing him off me 😂 he said my face looked like I was in a lot pain, and it really put me off to try again 🙈😂

Anyway it does get better the more you do it but I don’t do it regularly so it still hurts me when I have sex, not as bad as the first time, but for the next day or two it really really hurts to pee and I get some spotting and then it’s okay again.

I would avoid being on top if it hurts, that position just makes it feel deeper, so will hurt more if you experience any pain when losing your virginity. Maybe take some painkillers beforehand to ease the pain?

My experience was unbearable, but my best friend said hers wasn’t soo bad where she had to stop, and I didn’t bleed a lot at all, but another friend of mine was bleeding loads. So it really is different for everyone, most important thing is that you’re comfortable with it.

Good luck and be safe :)

Marilynjuana · Accepted Answer

It really depends. Not to scare anyone but the pain was almost unbearable for 2 weeks for me when I started having sex. Other girls barely feel anything.

Twalli · Accepted Answer

It usually hurts when your hymen is broken. Although that's not always the case. My girlfriend never hurt. My sister did, but she said the pain was less each time and it stopped after the 4th time. Also it only hurt at the beginning, after a while during sex it just felt good. She originally hated it, but apparently it was because she was with a guy who was really bad at sex.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

does doing the splits for the first time hurt? yeah, if you make it hurt but you don't have to make it hurt.

normally if you go slow, there's no "pain". if there is a little pain, you can just go slower or stop. no need to get penetrated fully the first time you ever try that. just like the splits xD

AmandaYVR · Answer

It's a bit uncomfortable the first time, but not so much that it ruins it or makes you never want to do it again. And physically it just gets better from there.

ushagomez · Answer

I guess I was very lucky, for I didn’t feel any pain or discomfort at all. It was amazing

Red_Dragon · Answer

Didn't hurt me.

DrippingHoney · Answer

Different girls have drastically different experiences.

Paige90 · Answer

It didn't hurt me at all and I didn't bleed any. If you use tampons or put anything (dildos, fingers, vibrators, etc) you won't have any problems at all with a dick.

boredguy01 · Answer

It varies. I let my girlfriend be on top the first time so she could control how quickly and how deep it went inside her and she said it didn't hurt that much