Guys, have you ever rejected/dumped a girl because sex was bad for you?

Is one time having bad sex enough for you to not go further with a girl?
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Is it true that if a guy really likes you, he won't bail after a bad first time having sex? I think if they really like you, they will rather communicate improvements?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There are lots of areas to the question. One is the girl who is a bait and switcher like she is a three hole wonder at first and then becomes missionary mary. Sex is important and if someone is like totally vanilla a person with a bit of kink is hard to combine. I am trying now with the wife who as a three hole wonder dating but now is not even missionary mary.

    Overall i would hope guys would talk to the person as i would think "you are a lousy lay. we are done" is pretty damn shallow and rude.

  • I've never done this personally, but I have dumped a girl for going too slow. You can tell if a girl is food in bed by the way she kisses. If there's no passion in sex or kissing, it's a problem. I've never fallen in love with a girl and found there to be no physical chemistry.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sorry to admit hun, most guys will dump after the first bad experience. Unless he is your husband or serious boyfriend he might be more understanding. xo

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  • I've never had bad sex but I'd want to try a few times coaching her on what I need.

  • I've definitely stopped banging a girl because the sex was so bad. Definitely.

  • Absolutely not. First of all sex gets better the more you and your partner get used to each other. Second, it's a two-way street where you feed off each other.

  • YEs. But that would only be in friends with benefits type of situations. I would have sex for awhile and then break things off. IN a real long term relationship I would try to work things out and spice things up.

  • Never.

  • Silly. If you suck in bed they'll dump you. Guaranteed.

  • Let me see, no I would like to fuck hr again and again in different positions to see which is best and keep her

  • I haven’t but I don’t have anything against it. In fact people can dump anyone for any reason.

  • Kinda yeah

  • Nope. Especially if she's a great partner in the rest of the relationship.

  • No, I allways try to make girls orgasm first..

  • Was it with ur coworker.. i think he asked why u won't say hi aymore haha

    • No dear she asked about her boyfriend having to finish himself.

    • Oops.. didn't read it all.. my bad

  • i didn't and wouldn't

  • Nah. Girls do that shit, to guys sex is sex.