Do you expect a blow job if you take someone out on a date?

Question

I saw a opinion on here from a girl that said: "  well, if he buys me a drink or a meal the least I can do is give him a blow job " l laughed, what does everyone think?

bluehen46 · Accepted Answer

No. Its nice. If i take a girl out i am getting to know her. If we click and have sex that is great. I have had sex on the first date and have not. The girl i married we did not for a month but did some oral things after a couple weeks.

If a guy does I personally would wonder about his character, but there are people like that and girls who totally are down with it.

I would say if she gives you the blowjob are you going down on her? I mean its only fair. i am a guy and can't stand guys who expect a girl to blow him, swallow and then talk about eating it being nasty. Pathetic. I love the female body and giving it pleasure. I just wish my wife would let me. Hell I tried to put my head between her legs the other night and she pushed me away and its been over 2 years with NO ACTION from her or making out even so i say though because i made a commitment and took vows. I told my barber who is a hot female with big tits that is older than me. She said 'You are coming how with me" I would be tempted, but

JimboGB · Accepted Answer

No, the problem is we are not raising men anymore. We value female energy way too much in men, in society in general.

These people on the streets in CHAD and the likes come from the most prosperous most developed nation in human history. These are the result of single mothers mollycoddling their kids and never saying no. So they scream and shout at authority (parents) screaming oppression and filming it on their $900 smartphones and in their $200 trainers.

The fact a male will demand a blowjob for a meal goes to show he doesn't understand that a man should provide for a woman, he should protect a woman, give her emotional and spiritual support, hold the door for her not because you seek something but because it's common courtesy and how a man should behave.

thegirlfromthething · Accepted Answer

If he expects a blow job in exchange for dinner there will be no future dates. My physical affection is not easily bought and I would only blow him if we’d been in a committed relationship for a while and we’d developed enough emotional intimacy to proceed to that level of physical intimacy. He should consider himself lucky if he’s not my boyfriend and gets even a kiss on the cheek after taking me out.

DrippingHoney · Accepted Answer

It's going to take more than chicken parmesan at Olive Garden to get a blow job from me 😂

djmzes · Answer

Simple

Knighted2170 · Answer

What the hell?
Okay, I'm all down with a woman being sexually uninhibited, but I expect nothing in return other than being polite.
Try this on a first date, and it's not going to be a long term anything. The entire relationship has gone physically-based without an emotional base. That's not what I'm looking for.
On top of that - if she feels obligated then there isn't any emotion involved. It's all fake. Which is again, not what I'm looking for.

Porcelaine · Answer

This made me curious. Now I wanna do a poll asking how soon do guys expect a blowjob.

jadspop · Answer

Hell no!! Excuse my language... In any situation where a gift is given or anything like that... You should never EXPECT a return...

If I take your on a date it's cuz I want to do something for you to show my affection. Nothing more. If you want to do anything back for me? Then I'd really apretiate that. But I didn't take you out just so I could get something in return.

Pro tip for self care ladies... If he's taking you out and expects ANYTHING (except maybe splitting the bill and that's an entirely different story) in return from you... Then he probably dosent care enough about you as a person...

purplepoppy · Answer

A BJ is just a small gesture you might give a guy you've met on a night out who's company you've enjoyed but don't really to see him as boyfriend material. On a proper date it's not necessary to reward him as the promise of future dates is his prize.

katiesmuff · Answer

Hope she posted her phone number with that post and she will never have to buy a drink or dinner again! LOL

Zannika02 · Answer

Negative

wingattebaby16 · Answer

well, some guys feel if they buy dinner, I am the Dessert.

if a guy is really cute and gets my motor running, I am willing to give head, esp to find out if he has a nice big cock. Small dicks end dates for me fast.

Quackthulu · Answer

Oh, I always expect to get my dick sucked.

QooLipBite · Answer

That’s actually a pretty good mindset to have.

But honestly? if I paid for a date with a woman and she offers a blowjob for it, I’d take it as an insult. You think I would be the type of guy to buy and expect sex from another woman? 😂

WadeDanielSmith2 · Answer

No. I'm not like that. I don't want sex on the first few dates either.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

By the third or fourth date, I would hope that we are kissing, perhaps even passionately. Beyond that, I would not expect a relationship to progress to any sexual interaction until we had agreed to be monogamous and felt some strong mutual affection. That might occur as soon as 6 weeks, but I have also waited for 6 months before that developed.

I suspect that the girl who thinks oral sex is expected on a first date is simply using "expectation" as an excuse to mask her own desires. I have known a few women who said they were addicted to giving oral sex and their diagnosis may have been accurate! 😃😃😃

matchrestore · Answer

Nope. I don't want sex to ever be transactional. Of course there are always things you can do that make it more likely, but not expected.

ohshee · Answer

That's funny no I wouldn't expect one I would be taking the person out because I like them and like being with them and now thinking about it I woukd be disappointed if she didn't say hey I let you take me to dinner so pay up know you owe me tongue, lmao

TJFreshman22 · Answer

Depends if you want to. You're in charge of your own life. Do what you want. If I was on a date with someone and suggested we head back to my place, it would kind of be assumed we were going to sleep together. But even if you change your mind, I may be disappointed initially, but I'd respect that. And maybe we just cuddle that night, maybe you spend the night, maybe we fuck in the morning (or oral in the morning), maybe nothing happens and we don't see each other again. Maybe nothing happens but next time we each want to. Just go with the flow and have fun with each other is the main thing and let stuff happen organically.

godfatherfan · Answer

Sounds like someone I would love to date :)

jabberwocky00 · Answer

If you want AIDS or an STD for a double cheese burger and small fries... hey go for it then.

BCA6010 · Answer

Definitely not, and if she tried to jump there that quick, it'll probably be our last outing.

Elliegirl · Answer

I went on a date with a guy once who expected a blowjob because he paid for dinner. I told him to go to hell and be sure to lose my number on the way there.