I have Uneven/Asymmetrical boobs and it's ruining my self confidence?

I'm 24 years old and ever since puberty I can remember that one boob was always bigger than the other. It was never drastic. I never really had to wear a special bra or anything, and you can only tell when i take my top off. I wear a 32B and they aren't saggy. But i'm pretty sure my left if a B (maybe slightly bigger) and my right is an A cup (maybe slight bigger). I would say over half of the guys I've been intimately with have pointed it out. They always ask, "Is one boob bigger than the other?" It hurts so much and makes me feel unattractive. Like imagine if I said to a guy, "Is your dick slightly below average?" After they point it out they always say it's not a big deal, but if it wasn't then why did you need to point it out. I feel like since this has happened so many times my self-confidence has been destroyed. I'll look in the mirror and cry about how much I hate my chest. It sucks because I feel like it's suppose to be one of the most attractive part of the body, and now I'm embarrassed to take my top off in front of anyone. I feel like if I'm with a guy, I have to tell them now before hand (that one of my boobs is bigger than the other). so they aren't disappointed when I take my top off. Has anyone else experienced this? Guys, are uneven breast unattractive? I've considered get breast surgery because of this
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  • All of our parts have little inequalities! Compare anything on your left to the same on your right, and there are differences. It is impossible for the body to develop each part identically. Often I have been with a woman and not noticed where and what the differences are, but then a pay closer attention and the differences become obvious. You are looking closely at the body you have intimately known all your life, so you will notice many differences that others cannot see.
    And even when the differences are very obvious to me, they do not lessen the appreciation I have for her body. Sometimes the differences add to the mystique and make her even sexier!

  • Every woman has different size boobs, just like our hands and feet are a little different sizes. When a guy is getting you naked, all he's focused on is how sexy and beautiful you are. Just let it go, gorgeous!!!

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  • Well we all have our flaws but if you have self confidence issues, I would suggest enlarging the smaller breast because (for aesthetic reasons) breast augmentation costs $3970 while a reduction costs $5680.

  • Eva Elfie
    Eva Elfie

    This chick also has uneven boobs; who I think is the hottest porn star in the industry today. And I love her because of her uneven breasts; I can't stop staring at them while masterbating.

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  • Well you do because almost every person has one side larger then the other ever so slightly (usually the favored side). I don't think the guys actually care, they might, but I doubt it.

  • My cousin had that. She got implants to even them out.

  • I bet you are beautiful and sexy!
    We can talk about your self esteem issues it you want.
    But maybe we should talk somewhere else where others can't see:)

  • I wouldn't worry about it. My breasts are also uneven. My left is bigger than my right.

  • That is actually normal most women have one boob larger then the other.

  • most girls with natural boobs have uneven boobs. however typically not every noticeable to most people. but a half or more cup size different. seems rare.

    maybe consider upper body exercises. to help define your cheat more muscle wise. could help even them out more over time.

    Calisthenics can be done at home or gym. good starting place.
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Calisthenics

  • They're all like that silly. Your value as a person, a lover, a woman, whatever, is simply not wrapped up in your tits. And no pair of tits are perfect. Get over it.

  • this is a problem only in your head. my exfiance had lopsided boobs and was self concious about them when 1st letting me see tgem uncovered. i only noticed after she pointed it out. most women have a degree of this. yet 99% of guys about 90% of the time will not even notice. (and that includes guys married to the wiman in question fir decades)

  • every girls boobs are different size xD

  • Anyone getting close enough to your breasts to notice their lack of symmetry shouldn't give a fuck about it. I don't think any woman has a symmetrical rack, and while it varies they're all just as wonderful as they need be.

    Love your body, it shows, and others will love it.

  • No, you're fine.
    Sorry you're feeling down about it.

  • No its not unattractive. I hope you feel better. *hugs*

  • all of these body insecurity problems stem from having sex with people you aren't emotionally bonded with. Just because everyone is 'dating' this way doesn't mean you have to as well. Like how many dudes have you been with? The boobs aren't the problem, it's your decisions that are the problem, the boobs are just some dumb superficial excuse to focus on so you can avoid the real underlying issues

  • You’re prob fine. My wife worries too but cists form and may change your tit’s shape for a day. Us guys don’t notice and we suck on them regardless.

  • Everyone has asymmetrical boobs! You are normal and it is ok

  • All boobs are gorgeous in their own way!

  • Most are different sizes but there perfectly fine no matter what

  • No two breasts are the same, however I'm assuming yours are extremely noticeable difference? But I honestly wouldn't worry. I can almost guarantee they will bother you much more than any guy. You'll still be attractive to us, and especially if we already are into you.

  • Every boob is wonderful even if it doesn't match its partner.

  • every single person on the planet is asymmetrical.