Why are girls so selfish in bed?

(yes I'm aware this is might be a bit hypocritical) Unless you make her come during foreplay, she expects you to continue after you are done. If she does not come during foreplay, and you revoke your consent to have sex once you you are done, she throws a hissy fit and dumps you.
Similar situations has happened twice. Why can't girls just accept that sex is done once its done, and its not the mans fault if she does not cum?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • dude girls are selfish in life. They only think about themselves in almost every single activity which is why hypergamy is inherent in females.

    when it comes to something you’re doing they don’t like they get upset because it hurts “their” feelings.

    if you think a certain way and they don’t agree then you’re wrong. if you prove that you’re right then they just get mad at you for being a dick.

    when it comes to sex they expect you to get them off and if you don’t you’re a bad lover but if you’re horny and they’re not in the mood then too bad for you.

  • Not all of them, but some just are.
    My fiancée is very selfish in bed, but I'm used to it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • WOAH BUDDY, very hypocritical. Sex is about both partners and each others satisfaction not just yours!! If you can't be bothered to get the woman off too then let her know before she wastes her time with someone who is selfish in bed and then will call her selfish for asking to get off too. Geez, dude. Not to be rude, but what the hell?

  • People have sex to satisfy sexual urges, and if you don’t satisfy her but make sure you get your satisfaction, she won’t enjoy sleeping with you. That’s not selfishness, it’s fairness. If you get what you wanted from her then she should get what she wanted from you.

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  • Ok.
    Everyone having sex should finish.
    If you're done before her and she wants you to satisfy her she's not selfish... she wants the same as you...

    I guess the reason you slept together is to feel good... in order to feel good both parties should have a happy ending.

    Imagine you have sex with someone they cum and as soon as they do they say that's it. You're left hanging... not very fun I suppose.

  • She comes first! That is your goal for a great sex life.

    Why do men feel so accomplished once the shoot their load? Regardless of their part we have or not? And you have the nerve to say women are selfish...

    Go pat yourself on the back, you deserve it!

  • Some women NEVER come during sex and to some degree it is the guys fault if he doesn’t care or try. It’s not fair for a woman to never get the chance to come because her man fell asleep and stopped caring about her pleasure.

    Maybe once you figure that out, you will get different results

  • Sex is supposed to be mutually satisfying, if you’re getting off and she isn’t you’re the only one satisfied, not wanting to please her is selfish on you’re part. Had you said she finishes and rushes you to finish or she expects oral and doesn’t return the favor then I’d say she was the selfish one.
    You said it’s happened to you twice, was it the same girl?

  • Men's Lib! Yay!

  • I remember, after a12 hour day, I didn't want sex. She made fun of me

  • They like coming first.

  • Girls want you to get them off too, not selfish I don't think, I personally love oral and I've found that if you get them off orally, they are usually wanting that hard cock of yours to drive them home to a second and deeply fullfilling orgasm they want and crave. But again it all starts in the mind, captivate that and the rest is all gonna happen smoother than ever,, best of luck