I am obsessed with black women? I consider them so exotic and hot and want them so bad? Dreaming to have a black wife, is that bad?

[Anonymous]

[PinkMichae]

Nothing wrong with being super attracted to black women. Now if you are obsessed with white women and you want to have a white wife some day then some people would call you a racist because there seems to be that double standard going around these days.

[Asker]

Not sure if I get what you mean

[PinkMichae]

Are you in the USA? If not I can understand you being confused. But here in America some would call you a racist only if your attraction was to white women and not black women. A lot of racism is happening against people with white skin because others call you privileged, tainted, hell one activist even wants to tear down statues of Jesus because they consider him white. They want to get rid of any history that was around during the time their ancestors were slaves. And I see a woman already downvoted my comment. But I just got done going against certain individuals on fb that truly believe all white people are racist as if we are our ancestors when in fact them saying that makes them the racist. So when I saw your question I couldn't help but think how many in the usa would only find it wrong or racist if your obsession was for white women instead of black. Because white is the tainted race in America.

[Asker]

Ohh wow this has nothing to do with the events in america and I am not from there... I always liked black women a lot it is a personal prefference I think maybe related to subconscious or genetics not sure just feel more attracted to them generally in a genuine and very natural way.

[PinkMichae]

What I don't understand is why color even has to matter. I live in a world raising my children to look at people as humans. Not white, black , Asian, Indian, Spanish, Mexican, etc... I lived my life with seeing most of the would see humans and not color. I thought thats how life should be and to only educate the people who are racist that color of skin shouldn't matter. But color does matter with all kinds apparently.

[Asker]

True colour doesn't matter at all.. it is just most humans are just too superficial and close minded. If we would pass over such shallow things we would evolve so much more as race

[menina]

There's nothing wrong with that, you like who you like. But, if you have a fetish for black women, then that's not good. It's racist.
I hope you don't use black women for sex.

[Asker]

ahh no it is not a fetish I would marry one by far my thought to use anybody

[menina]

Cool! I'm glad you wouldn't use a black woman for sex. Lots of guys do that. I'm attracted to white guys and I can see myself in a relationship with one. Just need to move to another country in order to find one who is decent and likes me.

[Asker]

well sex is meaningless if there is no happiness and attument of souls, that is generally valid. Have you ever been in a relationship with one? I haven't ever been with a black women. So where are you from?

[menina]

I absolutely agree with you. No, I've never dated a white guy. I'm from Angola. How about you?

[Asker]

I am from Hungary.

[menina]

Wow! I've never talked to someone from Hungary. That's interesting. :)

[Asker]

I actually never talked to someone from Angola so in a way the spark of interest is on my side as well. What you would say it defines your country?

[menina]

It's good to hear that. :) Humm that's a good question. I would say it's the people who are able to smile and dance despite their problems. We are also very welcoming. What would you say about Hungary?

[Asker]

You seem like a very warm and kind hearted person. So do people there usually have a lot of problems? I guees throwing fuel on fire never works so better to smile and dance at least gives a more clear mind. Is there any dance the majority performs? Do you dance? What do you preffer if so? Hungary has really good food.

[menina]

Aww thank you so much! :) You seem intelligent and open-minded. Yes, they do. There's a lot of poverty, the healthcare system has a lot of issues and everything is super expensive. The most typical dances are "Semba" and "Kizomba". I don't know how to dance 😅 But I prefer Kizomba. That's great! I love eating 😂

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that... pitty greedy people created such lack of equilibrum in the world. Sometimes there is so much suffering in this world that makes me think that trading my soul for all the people happiness would be a more then fair trade. So no smile and dancing for you? Kizomba seems nice (looked it on youtube) I am not a dancer either. Ohh I am sure you would get addicted to some of the food here. Do you have a favorite dish that you eat? or maybe more then one?

[menina]

Unfortunately that's true. That would be so kind of you ❤
Well, I do smile and laugh a lot. But yeah, I don't dance 😅 I'm glad you like Kizomba.

Oh, yes I probably would. :) I'm a big fan of a dish called "Feijoada" and a Portuguese dish called "Bacalhau com Natas" (codfish with cream).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feijoada
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bacalhau_com_natas

[Asker]

Both dishes look and seem to be very delicious. If you ever visit Hungary I would recommend you https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goulash and https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lecs%C3%B3 .

[menina]

And they are :) These dishes you showed me also seem tasty. :)

[Asker]

Well they also are but since they became pretty popular a lot of people don't use original recipes and so on so they may lack of certain base ingredients. Also they differ a bit in different zones of the country.

[menina]

I see. There are also different ways of making "Feijoada" depending on the country you're in.

[Asker]

so what other likes you have besides food?

[menina]

I love reading, writing, watching movies and listening to music. You?

[Asker]

I also love writing. What do you like to write? Also taking long long walks, not really read a lot lately just in work interest. Ohh and music ofc, yoga. Sadly so few movies are original these days.

[menina]

Mostly diaries, so far I wrote 3. My thoughts and I also tried to write a couple of songs when I was a teenager, but it didn't go well Lol I would love to be able to practice yoga. That's true and music isn't as good as it used to be.

[Asker]

Ohh I totally agree on that some old songs are just amazing. What stops you from practicing yoga?

[menina]

Too much noise around me and also lack of privacy.

[Asker]

ohh really sorry to hear that surely not something very plesant I experienced it over the years many times.

[menina]

It's ok. Yes, it ruins a lot of things. That's why I need to work hard to have my own place.

[Asker]

What time is it there? I need to sleep tbh here it is 4:30 am

[menina]

It's also late. 2:35 am. I also need to go to bed. It was nice to talk to you. And we can definitely talk in another time.

[Asker]

The feeling is surely mutual, I would like to talk to you when I am not so tired. Hope you have a plesant journey to dreamland.

[menina]

Those are good news. :) Sure, I'm also tired, so we can chat in another day. Thank you! Sweet dreams. :)

[Asker]

Hello there! How was your day? I must say I thought of you. Hope you are well.

[menina]

Hello! My day was ok, nothing special happened Lol But I also thought of you. Hope you're doing fine. :)

[menina]

How was yours?

[Asker]

Yes just very tired hard such a long and busy day. Do you have a schedule or do as you like?

[menina]

Thank you for the MHO! :)

[menina]

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe you'll have a better day tomorrow. I used to have a schedule when I was studying but now I just go as I like.

[Asker]

Kind of superficial thing this MHO, but you surely got it high, also I think you are intelligent and very capable of complex answers so well deserved :)

[menina]

Awww thank you! :) I like talking to you, you're polite and intelligent too.

[Asker]

thank you but hey!! It was your moment don't make it about me :D

[menina]

Thank you! :) I was just being honest. :)

[Asker]

I really try to be polite to the people that I think deserve/worth it... in general I am not a very polite human being because I will never be able to actually respect this society that transforms humanity into inhumanity.

[menina]

I agree with you. This world is getting worse and worse. I'm worried about the future and I feel sorry for babies and children.

[Asker]

Yes I really understand your worries regarding that especially children such fragile and pure little miracles very harsh world to come to for sure... and it can get only harsher.

[menina]

I agree with you. That's also want I think every time I learn that someone I know is pregnant.

[Asker]

I surely completely understand. Do you have any kids? If not do you ever think of having some one day?

[menina]

No, I don't have kids. That's a good question, I don't know if I want to have kids. Sometimes it seems like I'm sure that I want to be a mother. Other times I think about all the problems that the world has and I feel insecure. How about you?

[Asker]

Well I don't really have kids either. On the other side I am pretty sure I want at least one, I mean found myself around kids since my father got remarried and I must say I just adore them couldn't actually see my life without one. I felt in a pretty genuine and natural way that at a certain age (don't want to sound selfish) we need them. When you are really tired a kid could bring a spark of happiness and energy and completely change your state. Also they can have such constructive criticism since they are like always honest also such a curious and constantly hungry imagination. I do think about the problems of the world and that it would most likely be hard for a child but who knows maybe the next kid can change it, maybe they togheter can change it.

[menina]

Wow! I really like the way you think. You sound like someone I would like to meet and hang out with. I agree with you, kids can really make a difference in our day. I've noticed that my nieces and nephews always make me smile, even when I feel like crying. You're right, maybe they can change something.

[Asker]

Hey! I have fallen asleep the other night with telephone in hand. I think it is really nice of you to say that I would also like to meet you to be honest you do seem a warm and kind person. And I am glad that you experienced how kids can bring you from one state to another, they really are amazing like that.

[menina]

Hey! It's ok. I figured out that you fell asleep because you mentioned that you were tired. It's good to hear that you would also like to meet me. Thank you for the compliments. :) Hope you had a better day :)

[Asker]

How was your day? I had another full day to be honest I literally have everything so crowded and work more then I should. At this point I literally struggle to keep my eyes opened you know those cartoons moments when they use matches to keep eyes opened? Well it feels so. Maybe I am getting a bit old too not sure... I am not really familiar to being so tired at this hour. I don't even know who you are but yes the desire to meet you it actually feels intense I enjoy in a very genuine way to speak with you and since you like to read I would love to read the books you read so we can speak a lot about them maybe even analyze them... when i was a small child I was dreaming to have a library on the bottom of an ocean it felt like everything I need.

[menina]

Another day at home. I used to have a routine, but now due to COVID-19 I spend my days at home. Only go out when it's really necessary, so I'm getting bored. But it wasn't a bad day and I'm not tired yet. I know exactly what you mean. I had some days like that. Hope you manage to rest. I don't know who you are either, but I would love to meet you. You seem smart, open-minded and polite and I truly like talking to you. It would be amazing if we could talk about the books I read, we would have interesting conversations for sure. Aww that's a sweet dream ❤ I want to have a small library at home when I'm living by myself.

[Asker]

I followed you

[menina]

Thanks! :) I followed you back. Feel free to message me. :)

[jennifer_bloom]

That's not bad. A lot of good black woman out there - while good by worldly standards - since nobody is good by God's requirements.

[Asker]

that's true, sadly where I live close to no black women

[thegirlfromthething]

No, as long as you don’t fetishize us based on stereotypes like you appear to be doing.

[Asker]

No, I do not think in terms of stereotypes sorry if I gave that impression

[DizzyDesii]

Its not bad but you sound like you're fetishizing. Im black and would be turned off if a guy kept saying this. He should just approach me, get to know me, and rarely bring up my race/ethnicity/skintone

[Asker]

I wouldn't really say it.. that's why I asked here, that is why I am anonym

[MasRus]

If it makes you happy why would that be bad?

Is a little concerning about the obsession part

[Asker]

Well yes the obsession part may be bad actually

[MasRus]

Agreed. Get that part under control and ya good to go

[Asker]

I really try to hardest fights are with ourselves.

[BackAgain602]

Are you black, by chance?

[Tiptoeing]

I hope not... Im super attracted to white guys 😂 (I'm black )

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing @backagain602 No, I am not black

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing you really are? what makes it so?

[Tiptoeing]

I find it sexy, the color contrast during sex plus I sent to attract white guys a lot.

[Tiptoeing]

I meant I tend to attract white guys.

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing Hmm never thought of colour contrast but now that you mention it, it actually has a nice vibe to it complementary, maybe like ying and yang.

[Tiptoeing]

So what turns you on about us black girls?

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing Well firstly would be that most of you seem outgoing, smart and then would be lips and eyes usually and of course colour of skin as well, a black woman wearing some silky brown robe looks like chocolate so tempting, so arrousing so beautiful.

[Tiptoeing]

Aww thanks

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing why you thank me for?

[Tiptoeing]

Because that was sweet... some women don't like it but I like being referred to as chocolate lol

[Asker]

@Tiptoeing ohh that is surely very kind of you to say... it makes me happy that you consider it sweet

[BackAgain602]

If you don't mind me asking, where are you from? White men in the states don't feel the way you seem to about black women...

[Asker]

Ahh surely not related to the American way of thinking, I am from Hungary

[Samanthalythe]

hell no, I support all people together, wether that'd be gay/lesbian, interracail, an age gap, whatever it may be, if that's your thing go for it. And it's so great that you appreciate the beauty of people and if you really want to have a black wife then thats also totally okay.

[Asker]

thanks that's nice

[Anonymous]

What are you?

[Asker]

Caucasian why?

[Opinion Owner]

Just wondering

[Asker]

ohh okay, all the best.

[Anonymous]

Ever had one or you been watching porn since forever?

[Asker]

No never had here where I live there are very rare , usually preffer erotic pictures to satisfy my need

[Opinion Owner]

That says a lot.

[Asker]

it does? well not all people are lucky like that

[Anonymous]

That's not bad we love you too 😘.

[Asker]

You do? I think that is really lovely and encouraging