If you're flirting with each other and having fun, I'd just let the night unfold organically. If you ask the girl if she wants to get out of her at a club or a bar, it's basically assumed you guys intend to sleep together at one of your places nearby. If she's not looking for anything that night and knows she's just out having fun with friends and not looking to meet anyone, it's fine to accept a drink invitation or dance for a song or two if someone offers, but past that tell the dude (or girl) that was fun but you're going to head back with your friends now. Don't tie up his (or her) whole night just using him to pony free drinks off off by misleading him all night.
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Guys have to be careful about being too forward. And it could be difficult for a girl to state what's sexually on offer without making it sound like a transaction. Although it could be done comfortably in the context of flirting and humorous conversation.
One thing that sends a clear signal to me is when we leave the establishment where we met, and she turns, puts her hands on top of my shoulders, looks up into my eyes, stands on her tip toes to give me a soft, sensual kiss. At that point it's like, "Your place or mine?"
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!She should probably say something as soon as possible. I know some women that’ll straight up tell you she ain’t fucking tonight but you might get some head. Thing is there’s some guys that are just so hard up and expect something they ruin things with their mouth. It varies from person to person though
It varies from person to person. With me, the conversation over the evening will probably inform the subject adequately.
With me, I'd prefer not that evening.
I'd assume she has bad intentions and wants to hurt me, so I'd back away.
Kinda feel like she don't have to? since she may not know what she is up for yet?
The guy has to decide to stay and see what happens and not think of it as a waste of time. More just enjoy her company and appreciate her even if it's just talking.
Unless if she wants to say already?
Adult flirting. You're just not very good at it.
during the travel to the place we fucking at
The conversation will take it's course.. flirting and throwing sexual inuendos will sort of guide it into if not a full blown sexual conversation, one where we both know where we will end up later in the evening.
I don't think she should, mainly because she probably doesn't know until the end of the evening.
Sometimes a goodnight kiss on the doorstep gets you dragged inside to bed.
She should explicitly state what she consents to every minute at most because consent can be revoked, as well as when any sort of physical contact is imminent.
Pretty early on that way the guy doesn't feel misled
Why can't i just enjoy her company? Do i really need to have sexual activity?
Whenever she feels comfortable with this new guy. Is there some emotional connection you felt chatting with him, do you want something sexual with him? Personally I prefer if a girl is straight up with me so we avoid all the mixed signals, especially if alcohol is involved... no guy wants to be accused of taking advantage of a woman who was too drunk. So honestly is the best policy for me.
You shouldn't be having sex until the third date
That's the general guideline
Lets wait until we fall in love and we can then discuss sex (is what i hope she thinks)
When discussing price
I make it quite clear that I expect to get laid before the evening is over and usually I get my answer right away straightforward works.
After giving manual stimulation but before giving oral.
I assume if she doesn't say so that it's not necessarily off the table but if you want him to know for sure you should just tell him
As for when, I'd say as soon as you're sure you want to hook up with him
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